Okay....I need advice....Do you think its rude to invite FH's single friends (who will know many people at the wedding) without a guest if they do not have a girlfriend?
The thing is I don't want them to bring someone for the sake of bringing them (besides the cost I have concerns about the room being over crowded)
My single GF's I will write and guest....but I know that if they are not dating anyone they wont bring a random....the same cant be said for FH's friends lol
Im thinking I'll address the invite to just the friend and if they have a GF at the time they want to bring they'll just tell FH...and then they can bring the date.
Opinions???
sweetdoublenn
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There is nothing wrong with that at all! You can just address it to them without putting '& Guest'
roan126
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I dont know...I think its not right to invite some singles with guests and others without. What about only inviting the people who are seriously dating with a guest? If there are going to be a lot of singles there, then its not like they wont have anyone to talk to.
snwb08
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I dont know...I think its not right to invite some singles with guests and others without. What about only inviting the people who are seriously dating with a guest? If there are going to be a lot of singles there, then its not like they wont have anyone to talk to.
i agree. i had the same dilemma but in the end I invited everyone with guests anyway (well, except for the people I didn't want to invite in the first place but was forced to ) but no one brought randoms so it worked out.
lizzie217
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The friends who have GF and BF I am DEFINTLY inviting with a guest...its the singles I am up in the air about...but I think its all or none.....
I think Im goin with none....if someone doesent have a BF or GF I am just inviting them.....no guest if things change and they have a BF or GF they can tell me and bring them
guest lists are so annoying....its just that my room has capacity and I am close to overflow ahhhhh
PreshusSmurf
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Posted by snwb08
Posted by roan126
I dont know...I think its not right to invite some singles with guests and others without. What about only inviting the people who are seriously dating with a guest? If there are going to be a lot of singles there, then its not like they wont have anyone to talk to.
i agree. i had the same dilemma but in the end I invited everyone with guests anyway (well, except for the people I didn't want to invite in the first place but was forced to ) but no one brought randoms so it worked out.
i have to also agree ... i think its an all or nothing situation. its not fair to invite your friends with a guest, but not your FH's friends.
we invited everyone with a guest, there were no randoms.
kirstenjk
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I don't think it's rude at all. I had a similar problem and we decided to invite only those who are in long-term relationships with a guest. We really didn't want anyone to bring someone just to fill the +1.
lizzie217
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I don't think it's rude at all. I had a similar problem and we decided to invite only those who are in long-term relationships with a guest. We really didn't want anyone to bring someone just to fill the +1.
thanks.... I think this is the way Im going to go as well.
