Guest/NO Guest
So FH and I had our first big fight with a guest about this....
Background:
He is FH old school friends father. He is 55 and lost his wife about 2 years ago. He goes to group session to talk about his feelings. He has be pursue by our ladies there and he keep tells us he not ready. His son and his gf will be at the wedding. Also, he knows all the friends of FH that will be there.
Fast Forward:
We see him on Sunday and start talking about the wedding and guest list. We mention that our budget only allows people with someone 6months plus are allow to bring a guest. He goes NUTS!!!! How dare you insult me, I am having mental issues and blah blah...
We try to talk to him and explain to him howhe so negative and he needs to move on (We know it hard) but he living misreably because of these things. He then tells us his son doesn't call him or see him... basically he wanted a pity party and he was barking up the wrong tree. I don't pity anyone because I know people are capable of making things different andif not to learn to deal and coop with whatever life gives you. End of the day, he yelling at me and scareming like I am his child. I turn to him and say ' I am not your daugther nor does my OWN dad speak to me the way you do' I really dont care what you think about our idea for our GL. You come you come you dont... good Fkin riddance
and I walk out of his car.
Now he been giving the jewish guilt trip to FH and he like W T H man.
Just the starts of the drama
In additional, FH has a friend who single and isnt getting a guest for the wedding and his (this 55 nut) replies 'well we all KNOW he wont get a date?' Really nice d bag
thank for listening
Background:
He is FH old school friends father. He is 55 and lost his wife about 2 years ago. He goes to group session to talk about his feelings. He has be pursue by our ladies there and he keep tells us he not ready. His son and his gf will be at the wedding. Also, he knows all the friends of FH that will be there.
Fast Forward:
We see him on Sunday and start talking about the wedding and guest list. We mention that our budget only allows people with someone 6months plus are allow to bring a guest. He goes NUTS!!!! How dare you insult me, I am having mental issues and blah blah...
We try to talk to him and explain to him howhe so negative and he needs to move on (We know it hard) but he living misreably because of these things. He then tells us his son doesn't call him or see him... basically he wanted a pity party and he was barking up the wrong tree. I don't pity anyone because I know people are capable of making things different andif not to learn to deal and coop with whatever life gives you. End of the day, he yelling at me and scareming like I am his child. I turn to him and say ' I am not your daugther nor does my OWN dad speak to me the way you do' I really dont care what you think about our idea for our GL. You come you come you dont... good Fkin riddance
and I walk out of his car.
Now he been giving the jewish guilt trip to FH and he like W T H man.
Just the starts of the drama
In additional, FH has a friend who single and isnt getting a guest for the wedding and his (this 55 nut) replies 'well we all KNOW he wont get a date?' Really nice d bag
thank for listening
