GUESTS asking about FAVORS???

I don't know if its me. So my mom kept asking me about favors so I told her we were going to probably do a donation. So fast forward a few days and she says ' You know people aren't going to get it, they are going to want something to take home' So I say who are these 'people' these 'wedding ettiquette experts' that you know and she starts naming some of her guests. So I say 'Why are you talking to them about favors anyway?' and here where I get confused, she says 'They asked what your doing for favors?' WHAT!?!?! I'm like a huge green bridezilla right now but Have you ever heard of such a thing? or Would you ever ask in advanced what the favor was?

that's ...well, crazy!! who asks that?!?! ITA, that's rude of people to ask that! i mean, that's just my opinion but....i agree

---

Posted by MrsList09

I guess if I knew them well and was asking about details of planning, I would ask just out of curiosity

---

see I get that, like my aunt knows and I'm fine with that. But these were like my mom's friends from work who I've met once like 2 years ago and my mom's supervisor who she is pretty cool with....but why would they ask? I would NEVER do that.

People are so rude.... I am also doing a donation... I think its great!!!!

Some people are just so strange! Who really gives a s hit about a favor! Usually its some piece of s hit thing that ends up sitting on my kitchen table until I throw it out. I think a donation is a very considerate idea! Who did you plan on donating to?

ETA: sorry I bugged out a little! All these posts about rude guests are starting to get to me!

---

Posted by GT143EA

Some people are just so strange! Who really gives a s hit about a favor! Usually its some piece of s hit thing that ends up sitting on my kitchen table until I throw it out. I think a donation is a very considerate idea! WHo did you plan on donating to?

---

Well my daddy is both diabetic and 2 years ago had quadruple bypass surgery and Fh's dad has had 2 strokes so we were thinking the American Heart Association.

---

Posted by GT143EA


ETA: sorry I bugged out a little! All these posts about rude guests are starting to get to me!

---

thats what inspired me to post it

---

Posted by AugustBridein09

---

Posted by GT143EA

Some people are just so strange! Who really gives a s hit about a favor! Usually its some piece of s hit thing that ends up sitting on my kitchen table until I throw it out. I think a donation is a very considerate idea! WHo did you plan on donating to?

---

Well my daddy is both diabetic and 2 years ago had quadruple bypass surgery and Fh's dad has had 2 strokes so we were thinking the American Heart Association.

---

that is sweet of u i think its a great idea

---

Posted by AugustBridein09

---

Posted by GT143EA

Some people are just so strange! Who really gives a s hit about a favor! Usually its some piece of s hit thing that ends up sitting on my kitchen table until I throw it out. I think a donation is a very considerate idea! WHo did you plan on donating to?

---

Well my daddy is both diabetic and 2 years ago had quadruple bypass surgery and Fh's dad has had 2 strokes so we were thinking the American Heart Association.

---

That is great! Tell your mom to tell her stupid friends if they want favors to take home they can pay for them!

---

Posted by GT143EA


That is great! Tell your mom to tell her stupid friends if they want favors to take home they can pay for them!

---

I just laughed so hard tears came out of the sides of my eye. I needed that. thank you Gail.

---

Posted by AugustBridein09

---

Posted by GT143EA


That is great! Tell your mom to tell her stupid friends if they want favors to take home they can pay for them!

---

I just laughed so hard tears came out of the sides of my eye. I needed that. thank you Gail.

---

---

Posted by MrsDrinkh20

wait you mean placecards arent favors? lol

---

Apparently not anymore. I dunno about you but when I'm out and someone needs to know my name I am sure to tape my placecard to my head so I can be identified. I think its totally useful.

---

Posted by AugustBridein09

---

Posted by MrsDrinkh20

wait you mean placecards arent favors? lol

---

Apparently not anymore. I dunno about you but when I'm out and someone needs to know my name I am sure to tape my placecard to my head so I can be identified. I think its totally useful.

---

Oh definitely! Sometimes I even button it to my coat so people i meet can see it

---

Posted by MrsDrinkh20

---

Posted by AugustBridein09

---

Posted by MrsDrinkh20

wait you mean placecards arent favors? lol

---

Apparently not anymore. I dunno about you but when I'm out and someone needs to know my name I am sure to tape my placecard to my head so I can be identified. I think its totally useful.

---

Oh definitely! Sometimes I even button it to my coat so people i meet can see it

---

i'm sorry but that is just rudeeeeeeee
how can any one have the ballssss to tell anyone what is ok to do as a favor. these are prob the same people that will give a $20 gift if anything when you shell out over $100 for their dinner