Yesterday, I was trying to clean out my room at home..get rid of stuff that I've accumulated over the 10 years I've been there and start packing what I don't need right now to bring to our apt. I just got completely overwhelmed and sad. I want to leave home, I can't wait to get married and live with FH in our own place, but it was weird. I just kinda freaked out. Of course I took it out on FH. I called him and started freaking about stupid things that aren't done (really minor things, we're pretty much done wiht what we can be). He was good though, calmed me down, told me there's no rush and that he'll help and I can bring evertyhing with me if I need to and not throw things away.
Ahhh, the stress is getting to me! So many stressfule things going on at the last minute. I can not wait to be on the beach in Aruba drinking fruity cocktails!!
lucky1010
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
aw dont worry! You will be fine!! The stress of it all is tough to deal with, but Im sure once you get into the apt and have things settled you will feel so much better!!!
lucky1010
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
PS... just keep thinking about those white sandy Aruba beaches! Its what gets me through the day too!
RisiLeigh
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
I am SO with you!! The stress is definitely getting to me, too! I am one big ball of anxiety lately and I am totally taking everything out on FH. Thank goodness he knows it's really the wedding stress talking and that its not me being a psycho LOL!
bluekat16
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
It's natural to feel a sense of sadness and loss as you move into a new phase of life. Nothing out of the usual to freak out. Just remember that it's normal to feel the way oou do but that once you get settled into the new apt. with FH and get married it'll be a new and wonderful phase of your life. Also keep Aruba in mind to keep you from over-stressing
TrueLoveIn2008
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
I know how you are feeling. For me, the anxiety is showing itself in INDECISIVENESS. I cannot decide on anything, I go back and forth about my hair, makeup, jewelry, centerpiece design, cake decorating, etc. It's driving me nuts but I guess I am so afraid to make a mistake that I just don't do anything.
Kerin2804
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
oh sorry that happened - everything will be ok.
Gigi08
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
Aw, it's a very emotional time...a big transition especially if you still live at home. So sweet that your FH is so understanding...that helps a lot!
DeeluvsVinny
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
Thanks girls, good to know that I'm not the only one!
With 25 days left to go, I guess it had to hit me soon.
I also called one of my Bms and she said she's free almost everynight this week and this weekend and she'll help me with whatever I need and maybe we go to the beach on Sunday to de-stress a little. Hopefully that will help.
We'll get through this girls!! Right?!
Dougs Girl
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
That is totally normal. I am so stressed ans have been freaking out about every litle thing. It will all be OK.
Kimbalina
Posted:
Member since
Re: Had mini-meltdown this weekend
I went through something like this when I first moved into our new place.. It is normal. Kudos to FH for claming you down and taking the brunt of your disgruntalness (((if that is a word!!)))
