Ok so between realizing that I'm getting married in 6 months, picking up (and trying on) my headpiece and veil, buying my mom's shoes, and understanding that my FH is useless........
I finally had my first meltdown in the car. I was screaming at cursing at people in traffic, and just venting to my mother. I almost cried, but she stopped me. She made me promise that I won't have a real meltdown until January
Then of course, I come home and try to explain to FH, and he's all 'Everything's done......what are you upset about?????'
He thinks we'll be able to pick songs, readings, readers, and a menu in 5 minutes
BriansWifey
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aww, im so sorry. but men are ridiculous at times. my fh keeps on telling me that 'theres nothing really left to do' too. he is out of his mind i think.... we still gotta do tuxes, gifts, invitations, menus, church details, and pick out flowers. but apparently thats 'nothing'
why cant u have a meltdown until january? lol. i guess u have a few more weeks until u can actually have a legit meltdown, huh? lol
20mrsc10
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ug fhs are clueless
feel better!
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stinenandy2010
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aww i know the feeling! hang in there!
CarolAnn721
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Awwwwww. It's rough, but everything will come together!! Keep your head up!!
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oh I totally understand.....
irisheyes23
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There's nothing left for FH's to do but it's not the same for us!!!
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awww hang in ther ehun we have all had them. Honestly look how long you have held out thats awesome! You know Matt is just as oblivious with the planning so I can sympathize with you there.
Also if it makes you feel better I scream and curse at other drivers all the time. I dont have to be having a melt down I just have road rage.
Have a drink tonight and relax take the night off from planning, play some rockband and just veg out.
Ok so between realizing that I'm getting married in 6 months, picking up (and trying on) my headpiece and veil, buying my mom's shoes, and understanding that my FH is useless........
I finally had my first meltdown in the car. I was screaming at cursing at people in traffic, and just venting to my mother. I almost cried, but she stopped me. She made me promise that I won't have a real meltdown until January
Then of course, I come home and try to explain to FH, and he's all 'Everything's done......what are you upset about?????'
He thinks we'll be able to pick songs, readings, readers, and a menu in 5 minutes
HAHA! This sounds like my life but I assure you it will be fine. Get one thing done at a time. Some stuff you do have to wait till later to do so do what u can now and then set aside time to do that other stuff when it gets closer to the date...
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Thanks girls........ok I feel a bit better.
FH just ordered ring pillows and bags for OOT bags. And we selected readers and readings.
His defense was that I never asked him for help. Which I could swear I did, but he could be right. I may have hinted at it, but I guess hints don't work.
Lesson learned.......if I need/want him to do something, I have to ask him straight out and not hint about it.
Deep breaths............
Future Mrs H
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I totally understand- i had another meltdown last night. And as i have vented to you girls before my FH is the same. He keeps saying everything is done dont worry about it. I dont think any of the guys realize all the extras that go into planning a wedding. And that we are doing all these extra things. Its normal to have breakdowns. Well it is for me anyway- I seem to be having them every few weeks lately
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Oh Laura!! You are so organized and on top of things, please don't worry! There's lots to do and I'm glad Mike stepped it up when you told him. That's what I've learned through this process too - hinting does not work. They need explicit instructions. FH and I have a sit down meeting one night every two weeks to talk about household issues and wrapped into that, I bring up any pending wedding issues at that time. Its been working for us and keeping Mike on the same page with me - though I'm sure most of the info doesn't stay in his brain for too long . . .we do what we can.
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awwwwww im so sorry i think i might have one pretty soon
JAAMS
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don't worry, it'll work out and be ok
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Sorry! If you makes so feel better I've already had like 10 meltdowns. I think you made it a long time without one!
