Ok so between realizing that I'm getting married in 6 months, picking up (and trying on) my headpiece and veil, buying my mom's shoes, and understanding that my FH is useless........
I finally had my first meltdown in the car. I was screaming at cursing at people in traffic, and just venting to my mother. I almost cried, but she stopped me. She made me promise that I won't have a real meltdown until January
Then of course, I come home and try to explain to FH, and he's all 'Everything's done......what are you upset about?????'
He thinks we'll be able to pick songs, readings, readers, and a menu in 5 minutes
alli3131
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Thanks girls........ok I feel a bit better.
FH just ordered ring pillows and bags for OOT bags. And we selected readers and readings.
His defense was that I never asked him for help. Which I could swear I did, but he could be right. I may have hinted at it, but I guess hints don't work.
Lesson learned.......if I need/want him to do something, I have to ask him straight out and not hint about it.
Deep breaths............
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I found out during the planning that if you want the guys to do anything give them a list with due dates.....and make the due dates before the actual date you need it done......it gets done that way!!!!
jcreilly
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Im sorry !
KrisD72310
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So sorry! My FH says the same thing to me. He tells everyone we're done, meanwhile he doesn't realize all the little things that I have yet to take care of. The men have the easy job. So much more stress on us. Look at the bright side though, you have a lot more done than me!
