hair help

I got in a brawl with my mother this morning about hair and make up for the wedding (still over 7 months away). First some background info. My photographer told me if we do the pictures after the ceremony we will miss the ch. So he suggested doing the pics first. But my mom says we cant do that because her salon will not open early enough to get all the girls done in time. We would have to leave for the wedding at 10am. so my questions are:
1. do you think we will miss most of the ch if we do the pics after the ceremony?
2. if we do the pics first can you recomend a hair / makeup that can do 5bm, 1mof, 1 fg, my mom and grandma hair/makeup all before 9am?
I have had it with this wedding and I am ready to elope!!! any advice would be geatly appeciated. sorry for the long post.

yes you will miss most of ch if not all of it
alot of hair people will come to your house, be it 6 in the morn if they have to... good luck!