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After all our planning and spending FH have decided to call off our wedding....
and have a destination wedding instead
(were using NCL cruise)
Throughout this whole process FH and I have not been excited about anything, esp the planning. All we would say to one another 'cant wait till this is over...'. we've talked it out and were going to invite very close friends and family. Before we made this choice FH couldnt care about anything...now he has all these opinions and IDEAS and he really excited...we BOTH are! This change has made planning fun and re-sparked something bet us
We told our families from the start we wanted something small and intimate and it quickly ballooned into something else...we had over 200 ppl coming.
Lately we both were feeling the pressure and everything was getting out of control...My dad was inviting every person I've ever met! (of course he can invite whoever he wants he paying for the bulk of it)
Dont get me wrong Ladies our RH is/was BEAUTIFUL, their food is amazing...everything was perfect and in the mist of all of this WE were unhappy bcuz we never wanted all of this.... (no one should be this unhappy when their planning something so WONDERFUL)
Now were doing whats best for US and I cant even begin to say how excited Im feeling!
Yes we going to loose some of our deposits but its all worth it to us...for the sake of our happiness and sanity.
I just want to wish all you ladies GL and happy planning!![]()
and have a destination wedding instead
(were using NCL cruise)
Throughout this whole process FH and I have not been excited about anything, esp the planning. All we would say to one another 'cant wait till this is over...'. we've talked it out and were going to invite very close friends and family. Before we made this choice FH couldnt care about anything...now he has all these opinions and IDEAS and he really excited...we BOTH are! This change has made planning fun and re-sparked something bet us
We told our families from the start we wanted something small and intimate and it quickly ballooned into something else...we had over 200 ppl coming.
Lately we both were feeling the pressure and everything was getting out of control...My dad was inviting every person I've ever met! (of course he can invite whoever he wants he paying for the bulk of it)
Dont get me wrong Ladies our RH is/was BEAUTIFUL, their food is amazing...everything was perfect and in the mist of all of this WE were unhappy bcuz we never wanted all of this.... (no one should be this unhappy when their planning something so WONDERFUL)
Now were doing whats best for US and I cant even begin to say how excited Im feeling!
Yes we going to loose some of our deposits but its all worth it to us...for the sake of our happiness and sanity.
I just want to wish all you ladies GL and happy planning!