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Original post by M_Berk-Glenn

After all our planning and spending FH have decided to call off our wedding....


and have a destination wedding instead
(were using NCL cruise)

Throughout this whole process FH and I have not been excited about anything, esp the planning. All we would say to one another 'cant wait till this is over...'. we've talked it out and were going to invite very close friends and family. Before we made this choice FH couldnt care about anything...now he has all these opinions and IDEAS and he really excited...we BOTH are! This change has made planning fun and re-sparked something bet us

We told our families from the start we wanted something small and intimate and it quickly ballooned into something else...we had over 200 ppl coming.

Lately we both were feeling the pressure and everything was getting out of control...My dad was inviting every person I've ever met! (of course he can invite whoever he wants he paying for the bulk of it)

Dont get me wrong Ladies our RH is/was BEAUTIFUL, their food is amazing...everything was perfect and in the mist of all of this WE were unhappy bcuz we never wanted all of this.... (no one should be this unhappy when their planning something so WONDERFUL)


Now were doing whats best for US and I cant even begin to say how excited Im feeling!

Yes we going to loose some of our deposits but its all worth it to us...for the sake of our happiness and sanity.

I just want to wish all you ladies GL and happy planning!
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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thas awesome!

Lu2700 Posted:

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good for u!!!
RitasEngaged Posted:

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jlt2010 Posted:

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congrats! glad you and your FH are doing what makes you happy!!

Future Mrs H Posted:

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I am so happy for you. You are getting what you and FH want. A cruise wedding is so cool. i would love to have that. Are you keeping your wedding date the same?

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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can i be invited!?!?! haha!

wow that sounds amazing and i'm so happy that you both decided on what you want.
regy_k Posted:

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congrats on making the decision that makes you both happy and that is about u and no one else. So happy for u!!!!
keep us posted with the new planning
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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That's awesome! And probably a huge weight off your shoulders...if the planning aspect wasn't enjoyable, then why bother with it? Kick back and relax on the high seas instead!
Promise us pics - I think you're the only girl on the 2010 board who's getting married on a cruise!

Jna2010 Posted:

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thats awesome!!! glad youre doing something that makes you both happy!!! im sure its going to be great!

MarjorieFrank Posted:

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That is amazing! So glad that you guys are doing what YOU want to do!


blessed18 Posted:

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Im so glad that you guys are finally happy planning your wedding. it should be a fun experience to plan a wedding. im so jealous a cruise.

SuzanneK Posted:

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Cruises are the best. I'm sure its going to be wonderful. Its nice to hear that you and FH and are happy because that is the most important thing in this process.

M_Berk-Glenn Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

That's awesome! And probably a huge weight off your shoulders...if the planning aspect wasn't enjoyable, then why bother with it? Kick back and relax on the high seas instead!
Promise us pics - I think you're the only girl on the 2010 board who's getting married on a cruise!





I will def post pics!


I just hope someone takes my spot @ RH....hate to see a BEAUTIFUL place go to waste
Noelsgirl Posted:

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Good for you and congrats on the cruise! You have to do whats best for you. And at the end of the day its the marriage that is important and not the wedding!

M_Berk-Glenn Posted:

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Posted by Noelsgirl

Good for you and congrats on the cruise! You have to do whats best for you. And at the end of the day its the marriage that is important and not the wedding!




And at the end of the day its the marriage that is important and not the wedding!


ITA...I've been telling everyone the same thing, the wedding is just ONE DAY...what happens after is most important

AdriandSteve Posted:

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that's a great decision!

meganbrandon Posted:

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awww thats awesome! We looked into doing a destination wedding and really would have but its not recognized in the catholic church if the wedding is not in a christian building (and i'm catholic). I felt that that would defeat the purpose of a destination wedding if we couldnt do it on the beach :(

futureMrsJSL Posted:

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Glad you and FH are excited and content with your decision!!!

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