Hard time relaxing

MRSJLK Posted: Jul 03, 2004 10:53 AM

Hard time relaxing

I know that my wedding is still far away (10 months) but I am already having a hard time relaxing - I feel like I have so much on my mind - anyone else have this problem or is it just me???

dm24angel Posted: Jul 03, 2004 10:55 AM

Re: Hard time relaxing

No..Its me too..I research and plan but nothing is being set in motion and I'm freaking out a little myself...I remember when I said one year to go, now it's 8 months and I did nothing in the last 4 months it feel like?

cluelessbride Posted: Jul 03, 2004 10:57 AM

Re: Hard time relaxing

When I was at about the same stage you are I also felt uptight and nervous, etc. It helped me to review all the things I did (get a checklist and cross off thigns that are done - you will probably be amazed at how much you have accomplished), then I took a good look at what I had left and prioritized.

Then ever once in a while I took a break for a week or two and did NOTHING wedding related. Even took a break from this site or just went to the NWR section.

Also you should reat yourself to a massage or do something else you find relaxing - a manicure/pedicure, a movie, a play, a long walk.

Deep breaths!