mad at someone that you want to strangle them and you stop talking to them? then time passes and you see something that reminds you of the person and you feel bad and second guess yourself. Just wondering if this is normal.
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mad at someone that you want to strangle them and you stop talking to them? then time passes and you see something that reminds you of the person and you feel bad and second guess yourself. Just wondering if this is normal.
OMG...I feel like that very often. Sometimes I swear I'm manic
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Ive definitely felt like this. Mostly with DH though! We'll fight the night before and while hes at work the next day Ill see his stuff and feel bad! Even if it wasnt my fault. I think its cause were naturally forgiving people and although we do get very angry at times, we cant hold a grudge. Do you think youre that way?
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Ive definitely felt like this. Mostly with DH though! We'll fight the night before and while hes at work the next day Ill see his stuff and feel bad! Even if it wasnt my fault. I think its cause were naturally forgiving people and although we do get very angry at times, we cant hold a grudge. Do you think youre that way?
I dont know because I will feel bad for a few minutes but then remind myself why I was mad in the first place and tell myself screw that. Sometimes I have that moment of weakness where I will almost pick up the phone to call them and then tell myself NO remember why you are mad and dont give in
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a bunch of my friends from college made me choose between and fh....it was an ugly mess, but i know i made the right choice in the end. i sometimes get sad when i'm reminded of our friendship. the experiences only made me stronger....
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mad at someone that you want to strangle them and you stop talking to them? then time passes and you see something that reminds you of the person and you feel bad and second guess yourself. Just wondering if this is normal.
that's funny because i was just feeling this way about an old friend this morning! i actually was thinking of emailing the person but then second guessed my second guessing!
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mad at someone that you want to strangle them and you stop talking to them? then time passes and you see something that reminds you of the person and you feel bad and second guess yourself. Just wondering if this is normal.
that's funny because i was just feeling this way about an old friend this morning! i actually was thinking of emailing the person but then second guessed my second guessing!
thats how I feel.
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a bunch of my friends from college made me choose between and fh....it was an ugly mess, but i know i made the right choice in the end. i sometimes get sad when i'm reminded of our friendship. the experiences only made me stronger....
I guess in the end you know you made the right decision and get caught up in emotional moments. I just wish I didnt have these moments and I could be carefree and not give a s**t.
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Ahhh...it's defitanley normal!!!
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Been there done that!!! My issue with it is i WILL always feel bad for not talking to them.. My Best Friend for yrs... She passed away last August.
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Been there done that!!! My issue with it is i WILL always feel bad for not talking to them.. My Best Friend for yrs... She passed away last August.
That is terrible I am so sorry......I like to think to myself sometimes not to hold grudges because you never know what can happen and you can leave things that you wanted to say unsaid but I guess it all depends on the situation.
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Been there done that!!! My issue with it is i WILL always feel bad for not talking to them.. My Best Friend for yrs... She passed away last August.
That is terrible I am so sorry......I like to think to myself sometimes not to hold grudges because you never know what can happen and you can leave things that you wanted to say unsaid but I guess it all depends on the situation.
I will always feel bad that I just didn't talk to her... At least to let her know I still thought of her.
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LOL at least once a day
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i do this alot, i hate that im like this sometimes though...sometimes i should stay mad but then dont
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i do this alot, i hate that im like this sometimes though...sometimes i should stay mad but then dont
I know but not staying mad is sometimes how I get myself into trouble