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Has Anyone Had the Hand Ceremony Read at Their Ceremony???

gina674 Posted:

Has Anyone Had the Hand Ceremony Read at Their Ceremony???

If so... Who reads it??? The Priest???

I thought the priest read it, and when we met with him, he said that we are suppose to read it....

I think it will sound weird if we read it, but now I don't know...
kam29 Posted:

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We're having our priest read it.

pigs222seal Posted:

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What is the hand ceremony?

CaCRmr Posted:

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I found this online, it says the MOH and BM read it for you, then the priest:

The Hands of the Bride and Groom
Maid of Honor reads:
Bride’s name, please face Groom’s name, and hold his hands, palms up, so you may see the gift that they are to you. (Bride and groom should be facing each other, the groom’s upturned hands resting in the brides’.)

These are the hands, young and strong and vibrant with love, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as he promises to love you all the days of his life.

These are the hands you will place with expectant joy against your stomach, until he too, feels his child stir within your womb.

These are the hands that look so large and clumsy, yet will be so gentle as he holds your baby for the first time.

These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.

These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy.

These are the hands that will tenderly lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into his eyes: eyes that are filled completely with his overwhelming love and desire for you.

Best Man reads:
Groom’s name, please hold Bride’s name’s hands, palms up, where you may see the gift that they are to you. (Bride should now place her upturned hands in the Groom’s hands.)

These are the hands, smooth, young, and carefree, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as she pledges her love and commitment to you all the days of her life.

These are the hands that will hold each child in tender love, soothing them through illness and hurts, supporting and encouraging them along the way, and knowing when it’s time to let go.

These are the hands that will massage tension from your neck and back in the evenings, after you’ve both had a long hard day.

These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through difficult times.

They are the hands that will comfort you when you are sick or console you when you are grieving. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.

These are the hands that will hold you in joy and excitement and hope, each time she tells you that you are to have another child; that together you have created a new life.

Perhaps these are the hands that will comfort you when you are told you cannot have a child, and will convince you that together you will create new life in other ways.

These are the hands that will give you support as she encourages you to chase down your dreams. Together, as a team, everything you wish for can be realized.

Clergy reads:
Dear Father, bless the hands that you see before you this day. May they always be held by one another. Give them the strength to hold on during the storms of stress and the dark of disillusionment. Keep them tender and gentle as they nurture each other in their love.

Help these hands to continue building a relationship founded in your grace, rich in caring, and devoted to reaching for your perfection. May Bride’s name and Groom’s name see their four hands as healer, protector, shelter, and guide.

We ask this in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you now and forever. Amen.

103005FallBride Posted:

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Our Priest read it...he was very excited to read it. He knew it very well and it was one of his favorites.

pigs222seal Posted:

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OMG, I love this!!!!

ladybug78 Posted:

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We had the Pastor read it and he got choked up reading it...It was incredible!!!! People who attended our ceremony are still asking for a copy of it!
N.Y.bride Posted:

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I did and he read it to us. It was a little long. I kind of wish I would have made it a little shorter.

Shannondon Posted:

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My Minister is going to read it.......

hmpena Posted:

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We did it at our ceremony. The priest read it right before the exchange of rings.

gina674 Posted:

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Thank you Ladies!!! When my Priest looked it over, I could tell he never saw it before... So I needed to ask my Girls!!!

nygirl77 Posted:

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When we met with our officiant last week she told us about this. It is so beautiful.

Noonie Posted:

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I think my friend had this done, but it was read by the rabbi or something when she & her husband were about to sign the Ketubah.

frosty Posted:

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Our minister read it for us. I edited it a bit, though.

Backinneyork Posted:

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One of my close friends read it. She was supposed to be a BM, but she got pregnant and changed her mind.

71004 Posted:

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We did! It was amazing. After the homily (RC Church) I had a friend of mine read it. We stood up facing each other holding hands. It was so nice. I even put it in our programs... I to this day get compliments on it!

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