Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

Has your impending marriage changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage in any way?

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

Nope i truly believe that everyone has the right to be who they are love who they want & marry who they love!

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

Nope. I have always felt that gays have the right to be married. Who am I to judge?

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

nope, i always felt that anybody should be allowed to get married. Honestly, who are we to talk about what marriage is about when straight couples have over 50% divorce rate lol

I am curious though, how would wedding planning changes your views on this issue?

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

Everyone deserves love and happiness, period.

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

i was for it before and i am for it still. i dont undertand why others are against it. how is a gay couple being married affecting anyone else's life? it makes no sense to me.

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Posted by Espo22

nope, i always felt that anybody should be allowed to get married. Honestly, who are we to talk about what marriage is about when straight couples have over 50% divorce rate lol

I am curious though, how would wedding planning changes your views on this issue?

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I was in favor of gay marriage before... but I was thinking maybe as you're going through it and thinking about your own wedding, you might feel differently about denying other committed couples the right to do the same thing. Guess not though!

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Posted by Cacarina

i was for it before and i am for it still. i dont undertand why others are against it. how is a gay couple being married affecting anyone else's life? it makes no sense to me.

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I'd have to agree with this 100%. Who cares what other people do, everyone deserves to be happy with whomever they love.

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Posted by lila

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Posted by Espo22

nope, i always felt that anybody should be allowed to get married. Honestly, who are we to talk about what marriage is about when straight couples have over 50% divorce rate lol

I am curious though, how would wedding planning changes your views on this issue?

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I was in favor of gay marriage before... but I was thinking maybe as you're going through it and thinking about your own wedding, you might feel differently about denying other committed couples the right to do the same thing. Guess not though!

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OHHH ok so you mean maybe others that were against it before might feel differently after they start planning their own weddings

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by lila

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Posted by Espo22

nope, i always felt that anybody should be allowed to get married. Honestly, who are we to talk about what marriage is about when straight couples have over 50% divorce rate lol

I am curious though, how would wedding planning changes your views on this issue?

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I was in favor of gay marriage before... but I was thinking maybe as you're going through it and thinking about your own wedding, you might feel differently about denying other committed couples the right to do the same thing. Guess not though!

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OHHH ok so you mean maybe others that were against it before might feel differently after they start planning their own weddings

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Yes.... or maybe someone might go through pre-cana and think more about the religious aspect and be influenced by the church? I dont know, I wanted to make the poll balanced just in case

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

To each his own......

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

i was 100% for gay marriage before my wedding, and will always continue to be 100% for gay marriage. all people should have the right to marry whomever they want to - period.

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Posted by lila

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by lila

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Posted by Espo22

nope, i always felt that anybody should be allowed to get married. Honestly, who are we to talk about what marriage is about when straight couples have over 50% divorce rate lol

I am curious though, how would wedding planning changes your views on this issue?

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I was in favor of gay marriage before... but I was thinking maybe as you're going through it and thinking about your own wedding, you might feel differently about denying other committed couples the right to do the same thing. Guess not though!

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OHHH ok so you mean maybe others that were against it before might feel differently after they start planning their own weddings

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Yes.... or maybe someone might go through pre-cana and think more about the religious aspect and be influenced by the church? I dont know, I wanted to make the poll balanced just in case

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oh ok i got ya now. I guess it can happen though, i am sure there might be a few ppl who feel differently now.

Well one thing i have to say is that at my pre-cana religion wasnt talked about as much. Well i also did inter-faith pre-cana so maybe why haha. But i thought since it was inter-faith they would push religion even more. I was pleasantly surprised when they did mention religion just a little bit and said, as long as you two are happy and as long as you make the decisions you both agree on and are happy with. They said the only people who can decide what the kid gets baptised is the parents themselves and not to involve family. As long as we believe in something then that is all that matters. So maybe i got lucky with the pre-cana i attended but religion wasnt pushed on us, and there was no judging and mostly the topics were just about relationships

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

i feel the same. everyone should be able to get married.

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

I was in favor of it before and am still in favor of it now...I feel people should be free to marry the one they love.

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

I was always for it and a I am still for it. If 2 people are in love and want to get married, they should, regardless of their gender/sexual orientation

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

No it has not - I have always believed that everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, should have the right to get married and that it be legally recognized.

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

I feel Equally BAD for those spending a ridiculous amount of money for one day !

Re: Has planning your wedding changed your perspective on the issue of gay marriage?

I think that gay marriage should be between a man and a woman. - as Arnold Schwarzenegger so wisely put it

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Posted by RockysGirl

I think that gay marriage should be between a man and a woman. - as Arnold Schwarzenegger so wisely put it

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That's awesome!


But seriously, I was for gay marriage before and I still am now... Who am I to jude anyone else for who they want to marry?