has this happened to you?

let me start by saying i am so not a bridezilla. i don't care how the bm's wear their hair or if their nails are all the same length. stuff like that doesn't bother me. but why did my fmil call me a bridezilla last night b/c i said all i care about now is that my dress fits? its my dress and it needs to fit, why am i wrong for stressing over it.

my parents also think that i'm freaking out over the dress b/c i asked my mom to pay for it. ps - she paid for 2 dresses for my sister, 2!! and my dress is less then half the price, but whatever. i'm not freaking out, its just that i get upset and no one expects me to get upset and therefore i'm a bridezilla. i don't get it. its my wedding day and i want things to go right, not perfect, just right. is that wrong?

ok, pity party over
tia

sarah

Wanting your dress to fit is not having a bridezilla moment!!!

This has sort of happened to me too. FFIL told me that his mother (FH's grandmother) is so worried about me because all I talk about it is the wedding and what am I going to do when it's over? I was like...HELLO...every time I see her she has a list of questions a mile long and doesn't LET me talk about anything else!!! She better watch it or I will go bridezilla on her @ss!

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

Wanting your dress to fit is not having a bridezilla moment!!!

This has sort of happened to me too. FFIL told me that his mother (FH's grandmother) is so worried about me because all I talk about it is the wedding and what am I going to do when it's over? I was like...HELLO...every time I see her she has a list of questions a mile long and doesn't LET me talk about anything else!!! She better watch it or I will go bridezilla on her @ss!

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girl, this is me too!! i tell them that i'm not freaking out, but i'm going to start freaking out b/c everyone is telling me i'm freaking out! sheesh, its like they think its a joke.

thanks ladies

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Posted by sarahthegreat

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

Wanting your dress to fit is not having a bridezilla moment!!!

This has sort of happened to me too. FFIL told me that his mother (FH's grandmother) is so worried about me because all I talk about it is the wedding and what am I going to do when it's over? I was like...HELLO...every time I see her she has a list of questions a mile long and doesn't LET me talk about anything else!!! She better watch it or I will go bridezilla on her @ss!

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girl, this is me too!! i tell them that i'm not freaking out, but i'm going to start freaking out b/c everyone is telling me i'm freaking out! sheesh, its like they think its a joke.

thanks ladies

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I know exactly what you mean. I think because before I was planning this wedding I let stupid little things really stress me out...so automatically, they assumed I would be a bridezilla with the wedding. They haven't noticed that I've completely carefree!

I don't understand why talking about an event that is life changing and one of the most happiest times in your life is turned into something so silly. Why is it so hard for people to understand...that you may want to talk about it? It's just like having a baby. You want to share the news w/everyone..and when they ask...ummm you tell. SHEESH! PEOPLE!!!! It's funny because the first thing I am asked is 'how are the wedding plans coming along'...not how are you?

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

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Posted by sarahthegreat

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

Wanting your dress to fit is not having a bridezilla moment!!!

This has sort of happened to me too. FFIL told me that his mother (FH's grandmother) is so worried about me because all I talk about it is the wedding and what am I going to do when it's over? I was like...HELLO...every time I see her she has a list of questions a mile long and doesn't LET me talk about anything else!!! She better watch it or I will go bridezilla on her @ss!

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girl, this is me too!! i tell them that i'm not freaking out, but i'm going to start freaking out b/c everyone is telling me i'm freaking out! sheesh, its like they think its a joke.

thanks ladies

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I know exactly what you mean. I think because before I was planning this wedding I let stupid little things really stress me out...so automatically, they assumed I would be a bridezilla with the wedding. They haven't noticed that I've completely carefree!

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ok, get out of my head
i know exaclty what you mean. nothing stresses me out, i don't get upset easily, but this is an important day and little things and big thigs start to build up. they just don't get it

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Posted by sarahthegreat

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

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Posted by sarahthegreat

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

Wanting your dress to fit is not having a bridezilla moment!!!

This has sort of happened to me too. FFIL told me that his mother (FH's grandmother) is so worried about me because all I talk about it is the wedding and what am I going to do when it's over? I was like...HELLO...every time I see her she has a list of questions a mile long and doesn't LET me talk about anything else!!! She better watch it or I will go bridezilla on her @ss!

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girl, this is me too!! i tell them that i'm not freaking out, but i'm going to start freaking out b/c everyone is telling me i'm freaking out! sheesh, its like they think its a joke.

thanks ladies

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I know exactly what you mean. I think because before I was planning this wedding I let stupid little things really stress me out...so automatically, they assumed I would be a bridezilla with the wedding. They haven't noticed that I've completely carefree!

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ok, get out of my head
i know exaclty what you mean. nothing stresses me out, i don't get upset easily, but this is an important day and little things and big thigs start to build up. they just don't get it

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No...they definitely don't!!! But we all do!

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

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Posted by sarahthegreat

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

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Posted by sarahthegreat

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Posted by Katie&Chris2006

Wanting your dress to fit is not having a bridezilla moment!!!

This has sort of happened to me too. FFIL told me that his mother (FH's grandmother) is so worried about me because all I talk about it is the wedding and what am I going to do when it's over? I was like...HELLO...every time I see her she has a list of questions a mile long and doesn't LET me talk about anything else!!! She better watch it or I will go bridezilla on her @ss!

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girl, this is me too!! i tell them that i'm not freaking out, but i'm going to start freaking out b/c everyone is telling me i'm freaking out! sheesh, its like they think its a joke.

thanks ladies

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I know exactly what you mean. I think because before I was planning this wedding I let stupid little things really stress me out...so automatically, they assumed I would be a bridezilla with the wedding. They haven't noticed that I've completely carefree!

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ok, get out of my head
i know exaclty what you mean. nothing stresses me out, i don't get upset easily, but this is an important day and little things and big thigs start to build up. they just don't get it

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No...they definitely don't!!! But we all do!

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thanks sweetness!!

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Posted by angnick

yeah, a lot of people just dont understand. you are not a bridezilla. i think people just like to use the word..

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totally agree. They just want to use but not knowing the real reason when to use it.

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Posted by Blu-ize

Ask them how would they feel if their shoes don't fit or their outfit doesn't fit? Really doesn't fit..like won't close and their arse is hanging out? Maybe that will put it into perspective.

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have i told you lately that i love you?

By no means does that make you a Bridezilla! Just ignore them....It's your wedding and you don't want people hanging out of their dresses! Nuff said!!!

um, what would they think of you if you showed up the day of in a dress so tight the seams were splitting...or so big you were pulling it up all day??? geez...they should be glad you are trying to look your absolute best!

I'm convinced that people will make themselves believe that you're a bridezilla or stressed or freaking out or whatever they want to call it. Why? Because they want to criticize. I guess because people are more apt to believe it's true? I don't know.

I was calm, cool and collected right up until the week before when my sisters, who only had 2 responsibilites, go and start changing everything. A week before! You couldn't have done this a month ago? The two of them called me no less than 7 times in one day to make a change to this, to the color of that, to the jr bridesmaid's hairstyles, to their own outfits...

And then my one sister turns around and says, 'I can hear that you're stressed out so don't worry about it, I'll just handle it myself.' That killed me. That it was 'me' who was stressed out, not 'you' who was complicating the situation just days before the wedding I spent a year planning!

Anyway, it was all for naught because the kids looked great, they looked great, and everything went off without a hitch. But people are always going to point the finger at the bride for their own satisfaction.

Just remember that the next time someone tells you someone else is a Bridezilla. Don't believe the hype!

that freakin word aggravates the crap outta me!!
lets see...
1) the single girls at work call me bridezilla..oh im sorry im experienceing a life changing event that maybe youre not going through at this moment, im sorry if our patients in our office ask me 'hows the wedding planning going' and i actually answer, that MUST make me obsessed!!
2) Im bridezilla according to my FH because i think inviting the MAILMAN from a job he QUIT 8 MONTHS AGO!!! is alil ridiculous ;) Youre right hunny im A CONTROL FREAK!
3)im bridezilla because my dress comes in, barely fits because they measured the length wrong (oops)..has platinum embroidery instead of the silver embroidery that i was told to match my shoes and veil to (which cost me almost 600 combined and cannot be returned)...NO BIG DEAL, RIGHT? LMAO
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GIRLS THIS IS ALL IN ONE WEEK!!!
lmaoooooooo...im gonna lose it soon!

You're not a bridezilla!!!