Gotten a lap dance that you know of?? We both had a bachelor and bachelorette party last night for his sister and i knew there were going to be ladeis at his party ok whatever internally I hated it but it is what it is.....sooooooooooo when we both got home and were def. drunk and talking he was honest and told me he had one! I am kind of like ewwwwwwww that is so gross but than again I am like ok whatever it's a guys party and I should expect that stuff so i am letting it go but part of me is like some girls boobies were in your face!!! lol Ok just had to get that off my chest!
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I know he has in the past, but not since he's been with me. I have many issues with it, but that's a different story.
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I guess part of me is like it is one thing to watch them do what they do but to have them all on you to me is gross i didn't have some guy rubbing him all over me i would feel funny, although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
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IMO thats not ok - Ill give him the lap dance. Thats what IM FOR!
I think he got one before me - but im not going to kill myself over it trying to remember - weve been dating since he was 19
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
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Posted by madseason
Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
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Posted by madseason
Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
Yeah but i am still like on the inside! I want to ask so many questions but i know that isn't fair and it will just make me more upset.
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Posted by madseason
Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
That is why I asked for ours to fall on the same weekend or else i would lose my mind...and if for some reason they don't I will be sure to be out on the town keeping myself occupied!
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yup...at 2 of his friends bachelor parties....it does not bother me 'too' much...i dont like it, but i felt like he was there, its what was taking place and eh...i dunno, i know hes not into that...he actually is not having that for his own, if he was, i am not sure why, but i think that would have irked me more
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
Yeah but i am still like on the inside! I want to ask so many questions but i know that isn't fair and it will just make me more upset.
thats the WORST thing u can do. I did that when we first started dating and it made me sick! Its in your best interests to drop it - it already happened and nothing u can do. It matters that he came home ot you u kno? As long as he knows that u dont like it, he wont do it again - out of respect for yoU!
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
Do you know what hes doing? Does he kno? FH and I are open and tell each other what were doing - it takes the mystery out of everything. I know all about FHs bach party - his BM told me everything so i have nothing to be uncomfy about - and he doesnt like stippers or anyting of the sort - and told him flat out - i dont want that.
But try asking him and take the mystery out - and then think about how great your wedding is going to be!
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Mine did at his bachelor party. Didnt bother me one bit and it wouldnt bother me if he got one again.
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
Do you know what hes doing? Does he kno? FH and I are open and tell each other what were doing - it takes the mystery out of everything. I know all about FHs bach party - his BM told me everything so i have nothing to be uncomfy about - and he doesnt like stippers or anyting of the sort - and told him flat out - i dont want that.
But try asking him and take the mystery out - and then think about how great your wedding is going to be!
They are going to a baseball game and then into NYC to some strip club. He knows how I feel about it, as does his BM, but they are going anyway. I trust FH but I still don't like it. His friends all got pretty pi$$ed off when I vetoed Vegas on them and when they found out how I felt about strip clubs they went nuts.
I kinda have no say in the matter.
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I know it has to be awkard to hear about some woman rubbing herself on your fh, but on the other hand, he's being honest with you. He's not hiding it or pretending to have sat in the corner. I kinda feel like you asked, now that you know, it bothers you, but it's not fair to him because you did ask to know the truth
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
Do you know what hes doing? Does he kno? FH and I are open and tell each other what were doing - it takes the mystery out of everything. I know all about FHs bach party - his BM told me everything so i have nothing to be uncomfy about - and he doesnt like stippers or anyting of the sort - and told him flat out - i dont want that.
But try asking him and take the mystery out - and then think about how great your wedding is going to be!
I do actually he is going to AC for the night with a bunch of guys and we are doing something I think out east in the Hamptons for the night. I pretty much know he said he didn't want girls for his..he wanted to just go to a dinner, party and gamble but I am sure someone will want them!!
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Mine did at his bachelor party. Didnt bother me one bit and it wouldnt bother me if he got one again.
I agree it's doesn't bother me, but then again I don't go into details about it....lol...I don't feel I need to know a play by play of everything
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Gotten a lap dance that you know of?? We both had a bachelor and bachelorette party last night for his sister and i knew there were going to be ladeis at his party ok whatever internally I hated it but it is what it is.....sooooooooooo when we both got home and were def. drunk and talking he was honest and told me he had one! I am kind of like ewwwwwwww that is so gross but than again I am like ok whatever it's a guys party and I should expect that stuff so i am letting it go but part of me is like some girls boobies were in your face!!! lol Ok just had to get that off my chest!
ha ha thats sooo funny bc i dint want to post that bc i was but FH too went to a friends bach last night and i asked him adn he told me he got one...
i was more concerned that he dint touch her or that she was wearing underware!!! once he told me no and yes.. i was ok with it.
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I know it has to be awkard to hear about some woman rubbing herself on your fh, but on the other hand, he's being honest with you. He's not hiding it or pretending to have sat in the corner. I kinda feel like you asked, now that you know, it bothers you, but it's not fair to him because you did ask to know the truth
No you are totally right and that is why I am internally hating it but just it was me who asked and can't crusify him for that. I guess I am just curious to know what everyone else thinks about the whole thing as well if my feelings are normal!
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
Do you know what hes doing? Does he kno? FH and I are open and tell each other what were doing - it takes the mystery out of everything. I know all about FHs bach party - his BM told me everything so i have nothing to be uncomfy about - and he doesnt like stippers or anyting of the sort - and told him flat out - i dont want that.
But try asking him and take the mystery out - and then think about how great your wedding is going to be!
They are going to a baseball game and then into NYC to some strip club. He knows how I feel about it, as does his BM, but they are going anyway. I trust FH but I still don't like it. His friends all got pretty pi$$ed off when I vetoed Vegas on them and when they found out how I felt about strip clubs they went nuts.
I kinda have no say in the matter.
Just trust him and dont react to it - which is HARD - but try try try not to let it eat u alive. I used to be that way with him and it caused so many problems, and it was a long time - im talking years before I worked through everything.
His bach party happens once - I will be here if you need me!
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Posted by emomma17 although i have to say in his defense if my girls hired a stripper for me i would probably be the first one up there acting a fool with him so i have to just let it go.
thats a great way to look at it. I would feel funny and on the flip he said he would - so we have a no stripper policy on either side (besides we both have no interest in them) incase anyone wanted to do one - they know we prefer other things.
I think I'm going to need company on the night of FH's bachelor party. Otherwise I'm going to be a mess.
Do you know what hes doing? Does he kno? FH and I are open and tell each other what were doing - it takes the mystery out of everything. I know all about FHs bach party - his BM told me everything so i have nothing to be uncomfy about - and he doesnt like stippers or anyting of the sort - and told him flat out - i dont want that.
But try asking him and take the mystery out - and then think about how great your wedding is going to be!
I do actually he is going to AC for the night with a bunch of guys and we are doing something I think out east in the Hamptons for the night. I pretty much know he said he didn't want girls for his..he wanted to just go to a dinner, party and gamble but I am sure someone will want them!!
I feel better knowing he doesnt want them - i mean i cant predict those things and neither can u - just feel good knowing hes not out there salivating going boobies and butts and naked strippers MMMMM!!!!
to make light of it - u know what i mean? Its not something he would say - ok guys bring on the ladies!
