that I have been on this website for some time now and I feel that I have been holding back. I love the advice and ideas that I get on this site but have been afraid to share much about my wedding because it is 'untraditional' and some people may not agree with it. But, I feel that I must get it out. I am a lesbian and I am having a commitment ceremony. But at the same time it is exactly like a 'traditional' wedding in every sense but that I am marrying a girl not a guy. I am very 'girlie' and have always dreamed of the fairytale wedding. Luckily I have come into contact with numerous vendors that have been open and accepting of my situation. I think that I would have been devastated if I could not have the wedding of my dreams. I hope that I am not offending anyone and that I will still be a welcome member on the boards, but I just felt that I was almost lying when I came on here and wanted to be truthful! Thanks!! And best wishes to you all and good luck with your weddings. From what I have seen, everyone is going to have the day every little girl dreams of!
sami
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From an 06 bride First of all Congratulations and Happy Planning!!! Who cares who you are marrying man or woman BE HAPPY!!!!
LorinElizabeth
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Congratulations!!!! We're all here because we're getting advise and helpful suggestions from other people that are getting married to the person that we love! I think you're an amazing and strong woman for sharing this news with us!
Maybride07
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Welcome and Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
vmystique33
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congrats and welcome
MichLiz213
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Congrats to you!!!! Happy planning!!! You are absolutely a welcome member! You are going to have a day to remember just as much as the rest of us!
D's Girl
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You are 110% Welcome here
I admire your honesty and I personally as well as others, would not treat you any different
Good luck Planning, we are here and Congrats
AllJoy
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Congrats. That is wonderful that you found someone to share your life with.
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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
Don't even worry about it! I don't think anyone would ever discriminate against you openly about that (I can't say for sure what people think but I'd like to hope they don't think those things). But I know everyone here is great and very accepting.
Good luck and congrats-- a wedding is a wedding no matter who is being married! Sometimes I wish I was marrying a woman LOL b/c men can really be a pain in the azz!!
Happy planning
I love your last sentence
betani
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i think it's awesome! congrats!
annie1207
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Congrats and Welcome!!!!
AlBaBride
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Congratulations and welcome. I look forward to hearing the details of your big day. All of the ladies on here are very supportive and give great ideas/advice. Happy Planning!!
kewlpuff
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i will always welcome you with open arms
Mooshyboo
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Hi ~ Welcome & Congratulations! I have no problem with who you are marrying 1 bit ~ as long as you both love each other that is what is MOST important! Happy Planning!
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Posted by hayleyandsteve
you are definitely welcome on the '07 boards! this website is for people who are planning a wedding, and that's exactly what you're doing! nobody's here to judge your life decisions, whether we agree with them or not. we're just here to help you plan the wedding of your dreams.
so happy planning and happy posting
Perfectly said!
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congrats and welcome!!!
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Posted by hayleyandsteve
you are definitely welcome on the '07 boards! this website is for people who are planning a wedding, and that's exactly what you're doing! nobody's here to judge your life decisions, whether we agree with them or not. we're just here to help you plan the wedding of your dreams.
so happy planning and happy posting
Very well stated!
Congrats and welcome aboard !!!!
jenafee
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Welcome to the site!! We're all in the same boat whether its marrying a guy or girl Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!
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Cognratulations! Good for you that you are planning your dream wedding! A wedding is a wedding, no matter who its to so its great to have another addition to the boards! Happy planning!
Congrats!! It makes no difference if you are marrying a man or a woman...as long as it is the person you love! best of luck to you and you are going to have a beautiful day!!
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Congratulations!! How exciting! I'm glad to hear that you are having the wedding of your dreams as you should.
Please let us be your support as well as you plan your day.
You are always welcome!
Here's to a long, happy and healthy marriage full of love!
