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Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
HearzBellz
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:34 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:34 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by apkisles
Maybe that is just how she is, extremely honest, possibly to a fault. She should not have mentioned the money part but who knows, maybe someone incorrectly told her that and she went with it. If she knew that the bride and relatives would see it, I dont think she meant to hurt anyone.
I would not even say it was that she assumed how much was paid. I think the whole...'you get what you pay for...lol' That was snide & way out of line.
stephanief
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:35 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:35 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by apkisles
Maybe that is just how she is, extremely honest, possibly to a fault. She should not have mentioned the money part but who knows, maybe someone incorrectly told her that and she went with it. If she knew that the bride and relatives would see it, I dont think she meant to hurt anyone.
that made NO sense......'if she knew the bride would see it, I do not think she meant to hurt anyone'.....W T H did she mean to do then?
ChrissynRicky
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:35 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:35 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by snydl40
I agree that the post was very rude-but for you guys-her family to tell her about the comments made-I think that is even RUDER!!! You are supposed to be her family and protect her from unnecessary harm-and you actually put her in it. It's very sad.
My brother is getting married at Crest Hollow-next year and I would NEVER tell him the comments that were made-I would not want to upset him or my FSIL.-I'm sure their wedding will be beautiful because of all the wonderful people who will be there.![]()
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The bride is a an LIW member. Her family did not tell her about it, she saw it for herself.
hmpena
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:35 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:35 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by snydl40
I agree that the post was very rude-but for you guys-her family to tell her about the comments made-I think that is even RUDER!!! You are supposed to be her family and protect her from unnecessary harm-and you actually put her in it. It's very sad.
My brother is getting married at Crest Hollow-next year and I would NEVER tell him the comments that were made-I would not want to upset him or my FSIL.-I'm sure their wedding will be beautiful because of all the wonderful people who will be there.![]()
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Who are you to assume what her family did? My sister found this post on her OWN! You have no idea what you are talking about
BEANS
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:36 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:36 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by snydl40
I agree that the post was very rude-but for you guys-her family to tell her about the comments made-I think that is even RUDER!!! You are supposed to be her family and protect her from unnecessary harm-and you actually put her in it. It's very sad.
My brother is getting married at Crest Hollow-next year and I would NEVER tell him the comments that were made-I would not want to upset him or my FSIL.-I'm sure their wedding will be beautiful because of all the wonderful people who will be there.![]()
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AGAIN****The bride is an LIW bride!
hmpena
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:37 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:37 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by BEANS
Posted by snydl40
I agree that the post was very rude-but for you guys-her family to tell her about the comments made-I think that is even RUDER!!! You are supposed to be her family and protect her from unnecessary harm-and you actually put her in it. It's very sad.
My brother is getting married at Crest Hollow-next year and I would NEVER tell him the comments that were made-I would not want to upset him or my FSIL.-I'm sure their wedding will be beautiful because of all the wonderful people who will be there.![]()
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AGAIN****The bride is an LIW bride!
Thank you! My sister is a LIW BRIDE!!! People need to get their facts straight before they post.
stephanief
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:38 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:38 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by hmpena
Posted by BEANS
Posted by snydl40
I agree that the post was very rude-but for you guys-her family to tell her about the comments made-I think that is even RUDER!!! You are supposed to be her family and protect her from unnecessary harm-and you actually put her in it. It's very sad.
My brother is getting married at Crest Hollow-next year and I would NEVER tell him the comments that were made-I would not want to upset him or my FSIL.-I'm sure their wedding will be beautiful because of all the wonderful people who will be there.![]()
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AGAIN****The bride is an LIW bride!
Thank you! My sister is a LIW BRIDE!!! People need to get their facts straight before they post.
Where is the horse when we need it?.....that girl is a beyotch...end of story...Hollie, I am sure your sisters wedding was beautiful, tell her not to let this 'girl' ruin her day !!!!!
CKJ906
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:38 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:38 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by XFINALLYX
what im saying is, the only thing she said was the price per person. you guys made it seem like the whole post was rude itself. only the price issue was the rude thing
No one is saying that her whole post was rude, they said that her comment about the $55 pp is wrong. You dont go around making these things up, then say someones wedding is cheap. Thats such a terrible thing to say!
apkisles
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:40 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:40 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Sorry, I typed that wrong. I was just saying that I think this is so strange that someone would write such things knowing that the people who's wedding it was would see it. Then I was just thinking of people that I know, that let's just say are a little out of it, that just come out and say things without realizing it could hurt someone. I feel bad that the bride and family is so upset, it sounds like they had the most pefect day and should try to ignore this one girl.
hmpena
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:40 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:40 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
You know what, I am DONE! People are entitled to their own opinions. However when someone posts KNOWING THE PERSON IS A LIW BRIDE and posts rude comments, that is unneccessary. I have been on this website a long time and do my best to help those who need it. I am not going to let someone made snide, unnecessary comments about my sister's wedding KNOWING THAT MY SISTER WILL READ IT BECAUSE SHE IS A LIW BRIDE!!!Thank you to those who will not stand for rudeness. My sister had a wonderful wedding and has married the man of her dreams. Future Crest Hollow brides, you really do have nothing to worry about. It is by no means a cheap place.
stephanief
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:42 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:42 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by hmpena
You know what, I am DONE! People are entitled to their own opinions. However when someone posts KNOWING THE PERSON IS A LIW BRIDE and posts rude comments, that is unneccessary. I have been on this website a long time and do my best to help those who need it. I am not going to let someone made snide, unnecessary comments about my sister's wedding KNOWING THAT MY SISTER WILL READ IT BECAUSE SHE IS A LIW BRIDE!!!
Thank you to those who will not stand for rudeness. My sister had a wonderful wedding and has married the man of her dreams. Future Crest Hollow brides, you really do have nothing to worry about. It is by no means a cheap place.
let it go Hollie, don't let her upset you or your sister.....she knows what kind of wedding she had, no one can take that from her
snydl40
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:45 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:45 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
WOW-people are nuts when it comes to weddings. As long as your sister was happy on her wedding day-that's all that matters. Don't let others make you feel bad-did you have a good time? Did you enjoy the food? Were you happy with the service? If yes-then there is no problem-this is one persons comment and opinion. My bother is paying $55 pp next year so I can't comment on prices. All I know is that we would have gone to CH if my brother and FSIL weren't booked there already.
HearzBellz
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:46 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:46 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by hmpena
You know what, I am DONE! People are entitled to their own opinions. However when someone posts KNOWING THE PERSON IS A LIW BRIDE and posts rude comments, that is unneccessary. I have been on this website a long time and do my best to help those who need it. I am not going to let someone made snide, unnecessary comments about my sister's wedding KNOWING THAT MY SISTER WILL READ IT BECAUSE SHE IS A LIW BRIDE!!!
Thank you to those who will not stand for rudeness. My sister had a wonderful wedding and has married the man of her dreams. Future Crest Hollow brides, you really do have nothing to worry about. It is by no means a cheap place.
It's OK Hollie. Your sister has had a wonderful day, and will have a great life with her DH.
snydl40
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:46 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:46 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Did any one FM this girl who made this original post-she may have just posted and not checked back to see if anyone commented on her post.-I would suggest FMing her.
stephanief
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:48 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:48 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by snydl40
Did any one FM this girl who made this original post-she may have just posted and not checked back to see if anyone commented on her post.-I would suggest FMing her.
I did, I think she knew exactly what she was doing and she is a spineless beyotch
FallBride05
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:49 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:49 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by snydl40
Did any one FM this girl who made this original post-she may have just posted and not checked back to see if anyone commented on her post.-I would suggest FMing her.
Why? what difference does it make to FM her. I've read previous posts on this thread by this poster, and it seems she likes to guess what the bride and groom paid for their wedding. This isn't the first post she's assumed that with.
She knew exactly what she was doing.
hmpena
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:50 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:50 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
I also sent her FM. My sister is a fantastic person and does not deserve to have rude comments made. It doesn't matter how many nice things are said. The rude comments negate it all.
snydl40
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:53 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:53 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Sorry-I missed the part that your sister was an LIW bride.
cammolax23
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:54 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:54 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
ok lets move on girls....Larkfield Manor- One of the best places I have ever been too... waitstaff was amazing, as a BP gal none of us got a chance to place our dinner orders so they brough over silver platters with all 7 entrees for each of us to choose what we wanted....sooo perfect...
Bourne Mansion- goregours gorgesou gorgeous!!! the only problem we had was they placed our table in the corner-- but then again we were the load roudy bunch from high school --and the way the band was set up with acoustics were not very good.. but it was amazing.. food was fabulous
Deseversky center-- Loved the cocktail party style.. but they stopped serving food after the first two hours.. so for the rest of the time all there was was an open bar ( not that that is a problem!!!) but by the time i got hom i was starving and dh was hammered!! but the food i did have was like melting in my mouth it was so good.
Westbury Manor-- very nice, bartenders were great but dh and the boys tried to teach the parrots how to say ' your an a44hole' hahah
the most important thing about weddings is that all your friends and family are there and that you are celebrating the bride and groom... be grateful that you are even invited and sharing in this beautiful day
suven
Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:55 PM+

Posted: Jul 05, 2006 04:55 PM
Re: Have You Been to a Wedding at? (Updated Today)
Posted by hmpena
I also sent her FM. My sister is a fantastic person and does not deserve to have rude comments made. It doesn't matter how many nice things are said. The rude comments negate it all.
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