Have you ever heard of anyone NOT having a Bachlorette Party?

woobie113007 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 04:55 PM

Have you ever heard of anyone NOT having a Bachlorette Party?

Im really not so sure that I want one??
Is there anyone here who didnt have one or isnt going to have one?

jenafee Posted: Jan 16, 2007 04:57 PM

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My cousin and her DH both didn't want one.
So instead we had a get together of all their close friends who each brought a dish of food, drinks, games and we ate, drank and played games all night at my house. It was a blast!
We had about 25 people at the house.

MnM52607 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 04:57 PM

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I am thinking of not having one. FH yelled at me but I don't see a need for it. My cousin is pregnant and I am sure she's not gonna want to go anywhere so maybe we just won't do anything.

I haven't decided.

MJDoc12 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 04:57 PM

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Posted by jenafee

My cousin and her DH both didn't want one.
So instead we had a get together of all their close friends and we played some games and drank all night at my house. It was a blast!

that sounds cool! myself, i totally want a bach. party...but there's nothing wrong with just saying 'i don't want one, thank you very much anyway'

jaiese Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:16 PM

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My BP is just my 2 younger sisters (ages 10 and 16). I asked them if we could to a sleepover instead. You should do whatever you want and makes you happiest.

PegaLega Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:17 PM

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I dont think there is anything wrong with not having one. WHile its a chance to go out with your gfs you can always do a movie night or dinner which could possible be more fun and cheaper.

faithandkevin Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:17 PM

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I want one. I love going out to party and I don't have a chance too much anymore, so I'm not missing a chance to go out!

brittny817 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:17 PM

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Yea I have heard of a few ladies not wanting one. FH really doesn't want a bachelore party but he's gettin' one

You should do exactly what you want

stoebe07 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:19 PM

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I don't want one.. I don't think I will get one even if I wanted one...

HamptonsBride Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:20 PM

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Well I don't want a drunkfest w/ strippers cause i'm too old for that...we did that all when we were in our 20's..haha... most of my friends are married w/ kids so i just want to get together and do something fun like get tattoos or do a spa...beleive me the drunk fest w/ strippers was great...it's just not my thing anymore..

TnOiOnL Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:25 PM

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sure... alot of girls are opposed to strippers... My cousin who got married last year had a brunch instead. We got her a penis cake though We had to! She wanted to kick our assssses

alot of girls also do like a pampered chef type of party instead..

betani Posted: Jan 16, 2007 05:40 PM

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i'm sorta having one. i told all my girls i want to go out to lips in the ciy which i've been to before and LOVED it. plus they've all been wanting to go there. but i'm not expecting to pay for everything, i figured we'd all pay for ourselves. then just hang out afterwards and have fun. none of that stripper stuff or crazy *** party, just fun, you know?

i think fh's is just gonna be hannging with his friends, vidoe games, and some drinks. =0P

Hannah38 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 06:01 PM

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I don't really care for one.

But, it's personal preference

wilmetted Posted: Jan 16, 2007 06:24 PM

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I won't be having one either! Just a bridal shower.

carolinebr Posted: Jan 16, 2007 06:25 PM

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I'm not having one either... I think me & my BP are going to do a spa day instead

SusanAdam Posted: Jan 16, 2007 06:28 PM

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FH and I are just having a get together with all of our friends. A lot of our friends live out of state now so we don't want to miss out on seeing everyone. I only have one girl in my BP, my sister who is 12 is my MOH so I wasn't exactly planning on having a bachlorette party anyway. I personally don't feel like I am missing out on anything. I think I will have a much better time going out with all of our friends together and having one big party.

sugarkube4 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 06:31 PM

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at this point... I don't care.. it seems too expensive and too much of a hassel

destini458 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 06:56 PM

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i probally wont have one i live in florida, and all my friends and family are in NY

PrincessAurora Posted: Jan 16, 2007 07:19 PM

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My sister and my cousin didnt have one. truthfully if you dont want one i dont think you HAVE to have one.

Although you will probably have friends trying to suede you into having one but remember to tell them what makes you happy.

As for me lets party, party, party!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!