Have you ever heard of anyone NOT having a Bachlorette Party?
Original post by woobie113007
Im really not so sure that I want one?? Is there anyone here who didnt have one or isnt going to have one?
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I may not have one. I could care less. I've been to so many bachelorette parties. Between my friends schedules w/their kids and stuff, it would end up being very small, so why bother. I also don't want to put people through the added expense. If anything is done, we may just do a dinner and drinks, but I don't want them paying for me.
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I don't want one either. I would like maybe my friends and I to go out to a nice dinner and maybe a drink or two afterwards. But i'm not into the 4am thing. Not to sound old but when I drink it takes me the entire next day and night before i'm good again
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I'm not having one. For several reasons.....first of all its just not my thing.....I'm also a bit older, and at this point I have been to SO MANY that its just kind of lame now. Also, all (literally all 5) of my closest friends are pregnant right now so a bachelorette party is just not appropriate. Although, I didn't have a shower either. I told everyone that I didn't want one, and to please not throw me one. However, now I regret that. I wish I had a shower.
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Posted by jaiese
My BP is just my 2 younger sisters (ages 10 and 16). I asked them if we could to a sleepover instead. You should do whatever you want and makes you happiest.
I love that! I would love to have a girlie sleepover with my bridal party.
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Posted by woobie113007
Im really not so sure that I want one?? Is there anyone here who didnt have one or isnt going to have one?
u know i was just talking to my MOH and FH about this. my MOH is getting married 3 weeks after me and she was saying that she doesn't want one and i kinda feel the same way, i actually have 2 moh and the other one is all about a party...lol so im glad that lauren will keep kys incheck...lol but i was thinking doing something low key anyway because thats just my personality, u know maybe go to mohegan sun or something or go on a wine tasting weekend and just hang out thats just how i am....fh just found out his brothers (co-best men) want to go to vegas and itll be huge because a friend of theirs is also getting married like a week before us and he's all i dont want to go away and have a huge thing...lol i dont think he has much of a choice tho. i say its up to u who cares what everyone else thinks do what you'll have the most fun doing even if its just happy hour with your bridal party
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I'm sure you can do something fun with the girls and NOT consider it a 'bachelorette party' That is what I plan on doing, something LOW KEY and not too crazy....I won't be running around a club with a veil on my head and blinky buttons all over my outfit...LOL but some people like that sort of thing.
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My cousin and her DH both didn't want one. So instead we had a get together of all their close friends and we played some games and drank all night at my house. It was a blast!
agreed
that sounds cool! myself, i totally want a bach. party...but there's nothing wrong with just saying 'i don't want one, thank you very much anyway'
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I personally didnt want one at all, but since my girls convinced me that I have to, we decided to keep it really low key and just go to dinner and have a 'slumber party' with wine and games and manicures.
If it werent for my BMs I wouldnt be having one at all. I just dont see a point in it all. Its not like once your married you're never going to hang out with your girlfriends any more....
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Yes I have heard of that before.. we are doing a Jack and Jill Bach party!!
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i'm not having one, neither is my fiancee. we both dont want one. Plus i dont have many girlfriends ( they are all mostly guys) so we decided just to all get together and have a big get together.
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Posted by jaiese
My BP is just my 2 younger sisters (ages 10 and 16). I asked them if we could to a sleepover instead. You should do whatever you want and makes you happiest.
We had a pajama party for a friend of mine. She's not the party girl type and it was important to her that her younger sister be there. We had a ton of fun.
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My girlfriend did not have one. I think she secretly wanted one but I think FH at the time had something to do with it. He did not have one either.
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i dont personally want one bc most of my BMs dont like each other so why should i feel awkward with them during my bachelorette party ..........it really doesnt matter to me though
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I SOOOOO don't want one.... I haven't been part of the nightlife in YEARS. I can't stand bars, clubs....
I don't even want to go out to dinner... what's the point? We could go out to dinner w/o the bachelorette context.... My bridal party knows this... I doubt they'll try to kidnap me. Actually, FH is the same. His best man wants to take him to a @#$# bar, but he doesn't want to go either...
I know, we're couch potatoes.... so glad to find another spud to hang out with!
