Have you ever heard of this 'No-No??'

Original post by kbond06

Aug 25, 2008 11:03 AM

FH and I both asked our friends to be in the bridal party and they happen to be dating.....I was with the girl Friday and she asked me if she would be walking down with her BF...I said yes of course....And she was like 'oh ok b/c someone asked me recently and they told me thats like forbidden' (but her source isn't married)....Am I out of the loop here?? Is this like a bad luck thing? hah

She wants to walk with him and his mother wanted to come to the church to take pics of them walking together also

Anyone heard of this????.....even if its true I guess we're obv. not going to follow this 'rule' lol

Kristina2009 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 01:42 PM

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never heard of this and i have definetely walked down the isle in a bridal party with my then bf, now FH

VickiR510 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 02:39 PM

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I NEVER HEARD OF SUCH A THING! So many people i know (which are still married) had friends which were dating & in BP walk down together!

mdawg Posted: Aug 25, 2008 02:44 PM

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yeah... and its illegal to say the words 'ice cream' on the second tuesday of every other month, too...

this is ridiculous!!!! its your wedding, arrange them however you want! i dont think its bad luck or 'forbidden' at all...in fact, i think it is extremely respectful and a great sign of sharing your togetherness with others.

you are a very smart young lady.

CDFT09 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 02:45 PM

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I never heard of that. We have a couple walking down the aisle together in our wedding, and we are walking down the aisle together in FSILs wedding which is before our wedding. I'm not supersticious so I wouldnt care anyway...but I never heard that!

bellalinda156 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 02:47 PM

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I've never heard of that..

Autumnbride03 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 02:55 PM

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never heard of that.... does it apply for married couples?? FSIL will be walking down with her hubby, who is also in the party. hmmmm

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:19 PM

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i walked down with my fh at my cousins wedding ...i've never heard of that before ?!?!

kbond06 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:20 PM

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it must be a made up thing yeah at my FSIL wedding 2 yrs ago me and FH walked down (before we were engaged) and so did his other sis and her bf lol

soon2bMrs P Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:20 PM

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If this is a 'No-No' then Im in big trouble!! MOH and the BM are married and my other 2 BM's are married to two of the GMs. haha FH has 3 sisters whom are all married and everyone is close hahah what can i do

Dani777 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:21 PM

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Yeah, I never heard of that either...
My MOH and BM are dating...sooo..that's that. LOL

little34 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:30 PM

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NEVER heard of this....there are so many of these silly 'rules' just do what you want.

I have heard that you should never put an engaged womans ring on your ring finger....but there are a ton of these crazy things

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:32 PM

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Def never heard of this either..I have a few couples in my bridal party too!

browneyes Posted: Aug 25, 2008 08:34 PM

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Um i hope thats not true cause i have a couple thts dating as well n i was going to have them walk together.... hmm

frescelena Posted: Aug 25, 2008 09:17 PM

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........That's lame
I don't think that's bad luck at all!

angels914 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 09:40 PM

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I have never heard of this !!!!!! Let them do it !!!!! It is your wedding !!!!

KARA16 Posted: Aug 25, 2008 10:16 PM

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I never heard of this. Some new rule???

kristentinnelly Posted: Aug 25, 2008 10:19 PM

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I actuallt HAVE heard it before

My friends wedding last year FH and I were in it together. The NO-No is if you walk downt eh aisle together...not leave the church together.
Roxanne had the guys walk in together and the girls walked in one at a time and they I left teh church with FH next to me.

I also like it when the girls walk in solo anyways. It shows the girls off a bit

iYexie Posted: Aug 26, 2008 12:47 AM

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Posted by Mrs B to Be

i walked down the aisle with FH 3 years ago for a friends wedding, we knew at that point we would be getting married eventually, and now here we are!

it didnt cause any bad karma for us......it was the big joke that it was gonna be practise for us

same here!

lanamanitta Posted: Aug 26, 2008 01:00 AM

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I have never heard of this, but my GM's will serve as ushers, then go up and wait with the FH while everyone else comes in. My girls will walk in alone, and leave with a GM. Even if this were a true 'superstition' which I assume is a 'jinx' on an unmarried couple walking up the aisle together before their wedding (silly silly), you can 'cure it' that way.

MrsInglima Posted: Aug 26, 2008 06:20 AM

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I've never heard of this, although we have two couples in our BP and we're not having them walk together, but it's for different reasons.

Funny story, my grandparents met because they were part of a BP and were each other's partners. My grandma always says, 'The first time I met him, he walked me down the isle! It was a good omen!'