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have you ever wondered......

Pierre07 Posted:

have you ever wondered......

'what if'

What if, you were not with the man that you were going to marry soon, what do you think you would be up too today????
jenn122397 Posted:

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i just asked FH this question last night (well it was phrased a lil differently )
i have no idea - probably on one of those match.com things
JIFFY Posted:

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I would be doing less laundry, less cleaning, and I would have lots more $$$!!! But... I love him so I think I will stay poor and buy more detergent!
HamptonsBride Posted:

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I know 'what if' hahaha.....i'd still be working at the job I hated...i wouldn't be doing photography, I wouldn't have traveled to other countries, i'd still be dating jerks that treat me like crap, and I wouldn't have my 2 pups! I've actually followed more of my dreams and goals after meeting FH...i consider myself blessed to have him in my life!

bettybcafe Posted:

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I would def. be with my ex-bf who didnt treat me as good as my FH is...I would of ended up marrying my ex and living a horrible depressing life. So I'm glad my FH took me away from all of that.

prettyprincess07 Posted:

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You know FH and I were talking about that the other day. What our lives would have been like if we never met. I dont have an answer for this one, gotta think it over

Pierre07 Posted:

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if i wasnt with fh i would still be with my ex, and be miserable. I was never able to be the person that i am around him.... My fh treats me like a queen, and thats how every woman should be treated, i thank god for him everyday......

Pierre07 Posted:

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I just asked FH and he said that he thinks that he would still be single....

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY

I would be doing less laundry, less cleaning, and I would have lots more $$$!!! But... I love him so I think I will stay poor and buy more detergent!

Too funny. I have no idea!!!!
annie1207 Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY

I would be doing less laundry, less cleaning, and I would have lots more $$$!!! But... I love him so I think I will stay poor and buy more detergent!




I can relate....
kewlpuff Posted:

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soaring thru law school, doing alot less cleaning, doing alot less worrying, being a total career woman but probably never having known love and a heart so true to the core as what fh has shown me altho sometimes he's so truthful it makes me want to kick his nuts
drpepper318 Posted:

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Absolutey I've thought about that so many times... what if we never met.. or never started going out.. I know my life would be SO different right now.. I have no idea what I'd be doing but I'd probably be very unhappy.. and as for my FH he definitely would be living somewhere entirely different with a completely different career.. it's so funny how one decision or one chance meeting can change your life forever..

rojerono Posted:

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Wow. That's weird. I never even thought about it. My whole life is sooooo wrapped up with FH's! Our kids, our house, our dog.. it would be a TOTALLY different life.

Let's see.. I would probably be dating someone, but probably not married. I would have probably already finished up my dissertation. I would have probably purchased my mom's house after she died and I would likely be going out on weekends and doing happy hours on Friday's with the girls from the office. Travelling 2 times a year to Europe or wherever... basically living the life I had prior to FH.

God I am so grateful to have him! I would NEVER want to go back to where I was!
Soon2bMrsI Posted:

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I would of probably been going to the clubs still and still doing the whole internet dating things since it was a success for me!!!

Licee15 Posted:

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I would think to myself when I was going to met him...

Something like that has happened to us, where we both needed to test the road to make sure this is what we wanted.....And when we did have that break...It taught us both so much about ourselves and realized we couldn't ever live without one another...It actually made us so much stronger.....

ETAB Posted:

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I would be living in Manhattan partying every weekend, traveling to Europe possible living there. Dating random men with no real commitment...

I am so lucky to have him he grounds me.. he is everything I have ever wanted and more!
causeimb Posted:

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Posted by jenn122397

i just asked FH this question last night (well it was phrased a lil differently )
i have no idea - probably on one of those match.com things



Ohhh Girl you dont even want to know.

causeimb Posted:

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Posted by ETAB

I would be living in Manhattan partying every weekend, traveling to Europe possible living there. Dating random men with no real commitment...

I am so lucky to have him he grounds me.. he is everything I have ever wanted and more!



Fh does the same thing for me. Showed me a nicer sweeter side of life
neener1211 Posted:

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i'd be single, miserable and wondering where to find someone like my FH.

Michy Posted:

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I'd be doing the same thing before I met him... 'Why can't I meet a guy'haha

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