have you ever wondered......

Original post by Pierre07

Sep 27, 2006 10:46 PM

'what if'

What if, you were not with the man that you were going to marry soon, what do you think you would be up too today????

mycrayon1 Posted: Sep 28, 2006 12:04 PM

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Posted by kewlpuff

soaring thru law school, doing alot less cleaning, doing alot less worrying, being a total career woman but probably never having known love and a heart so true to the core as what fh has shown me altho sometimes he's so truthful it makes me want to kick his nuts

I'd love to do that too sometimes! I have no clue what I'd be doing!

ant n tilde Posted: Sep 28, 2006 12:52 PM

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i am not too sure - but i would probably be single. . . theres no prospects at work. . . i didnt even really like anyone when i was in college . . . and i dont really do stuff where it would be possible to meet guys - all of my friends have fiances/serious boyfriends. . . so there would be no one to troll for some guys with

I dont know but i do know i would probably be miserable!

Trishthedish Posted: Sep 28, 2006 12:55 PM

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I would probably still be with my ex-loser that I was with for 6 years and miserable.

My FH saved my life from that man!!

lilangel Posted: Sep 28, 2006 01:05 PM

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I would probably be single still living with my mom or with a guy who didnt appreciate me as much as my fiance does.

He would have still been in Illinois working in Radio (which he was starting to hate)

jenafee Posted: Sep 28, 2006 02:28 PM

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I would probably be with some other guy who treated me like crap and strung me along. I'm so glad I found my FH. He's the best thing that ever happened to me and loves me to pieces!!!

brittny817 Posted: Sep 28, 2006 02:33 PM

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I would be living in London. Right before I met FH I was in negotiations with my company's London headquarters to relocate and manage our London based marketing department. Within 2 weeks of dating FH I knew I couldn't leave and called off the move. Fortunately I was able to keep my position here!!!

Aug06 Posted: Sep 28, 2006 03:01 PM

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I would be living in NYC instead of Albuquerque working on my phd. Which also means I would be $80,000 in debt so far! Even with the wedding planning I owe a lot less than that!

olivia30 Posted: Sep 28, 2006 03:01 PM

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I would be working more.

aprlflwr Posted: Sep 28, 2006 05:42 PM

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Posted by ETAB

I would be living in Manhattan partying every weekend, traveling to Europe possible living there. Dating random men with no real commitment...

I am so lucky to have him he grounds me.. he is everything I have ever wanted and more!

I would probably be doing the same, and I too am lucky to have my FH. He keeps me in check.

snowcat Posted: Sep 28, 2006 06:33 PM

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absolutely! I prob. would have ended up marrying on of my best friend's, become a military wife, and drove each other crazy--we're much better as friends and as he once said- I'm so glad we're friends, now I don't have to put up with your craziness- plus, this way we'll always be friends

that was 4 years ago- then I met FH and I'm soo happy (maybe he hasn't realized I'm crazy yet, lol) we are truly perfect for each other, so I'm glad I met to and didn't make the wrong decision!

Mandyin2007 Posted: Sep 28, 2006 07:46 PM

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I think about it, but I don't know. It's kind of scary!

onelove1 Posted: Sep 28, 2006 07:50 PM

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Fh and I had broke up for four months before we got engaged and that was enough for me to know that I never want to be without him ever again. I would be dating jerks who would never compare to him.