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Have you guys talked about burials/cremations with your SO's?

cocoa Posted:

Have you guys talked about burials/cremations with your SO's?

Not to be morbid, but has anyone talked about it? dh is jewish, i'm not, and i think i want to be cremated. just curious what everyon'es situations will be. will you be with you families? sorry if this is depressing, but nobody talks about it and we were wondering what people do.

IrishTracy Posted:

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I know my husband wants to be cremated I DON'T!! We discussed that.

My husband has been doing construction in a funeral home. So he asked about the pricing. It's quite morbid.
February05 Posted:

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we spoke about it... we both want to be creamated.... i hate the idea of being 'buried', its too confining (even if i am 'dead' ),,, also, we get mad at how much land is taken up by cemetaries and golf courses, so i dont want to be buried, and i only go to the driving range (i dont play on a real course)


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Monkeybride Posted:

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We have discussed that we both want to be cremated we just need to get it all in writing.

Goldi1021 Posted:

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If I die tomorrow (or before I am married) I will be buried in my father's family plot in New Jersey. The thought of spending eternity in Jersey doesn't sit well with me, but it is paid for. As for after I get married, we are talking about it right now. We will more than likely buy plots to include future children. There will be no cremation as we are Jewish.

FireIslandLove Posted:

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We know we both want to be buried, but I'm afraid there will be no plots left when we pass! There's hardly any open now I think (on LI).
06NovBride Posted:

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I've talked about that I want to be cremated and have my ashes spread (secretly a la shawshank redemption) at disney world.

Jax430 Posted:

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We havent discussed it, but we will both be buried, since Judaism forbids cremation.

070502 Posted:

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All funeral arrangements were put in writing right after our wedding, it was a given for his job.

RedHead Posted:

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Yes...both of us will be cremated
jantany26 Posted:

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We both want to be cremated, I just can't fathom being underground even if I'm dead.
Irishbride Posted:

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I want to be cremated. Not sure what DH wants. I think he wants to be buried.

Jan05Bride Posted:

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Both buried.

don424 Posted:

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we will be buried together

i wanted to get like a mini tomb and have both immediate families in there with us
JimmysBride Posted:

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Posted by Jan05Bride

Both buried.


Same here.
Janice Posted:

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Both buried, sharing a headstone..where? I am not sure yet. If it happened today, then in NY..

IrishTracy Posted:

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Posted by FireIslandLove

We know we both want to be buried, but I'm afraid there will be no plots left when we pass! There's hardly any open now I think (on LI).

I'm not sure of your religion but St. Charles is HUGE & they have land they haven't even touched yet.

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