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Having a mini panic attack

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

Having a mini panic attack

I dunno why but I am so so stressed about photography!!! Ive met with 4 photographers and I dunno what to do. I am leaning towards one but i am so afraid to make the wrong decision. I was not like this with any of our other vendors so I dont know why im stressing about this now. I guess we wont know if I made the wrong decision until after the wedding Ive only read good things about the photographer I want but we all know how things can easily get pulled from here. GRRR!! Does anyone else feel this way??

Thanks for listening!
Im a Pepper Posted:

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YES, i know exactly what you're going through.. and this is an extremely important vendor so it's not surprising that you feel this way. it seems like there is one that you're leaning towards more than the others... i think a lot of times with wedding planning, it's important to go with your gut! GL!!!!
Danip24 Posted:

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I AM WITH YOU!!!! We have not been able to make a decision. We are leaning toward one inparticular but we'll see. It is very expensive and very stressful

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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and FH is of no help. All he says is, 'their nice I like them' but im afraid he likes the price more than the pics. And, after awhile the pictures all start looking the same.

I do have to give him credit though he did pick out the album style he likes the best...magazine style.

I guess what I will do is just go with the photographer we both agreed on and just go from there. I mean if we hate our e-pics we could always just find another photographer right?
Ivyqueenz Posted:

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I'm with you here. I am so afraid of making the wrong decision that I am putting off making more appts. I went to one and I was a little overwhelmed.
ddnsp618 Posted:

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who are you looking at? im freaking out too, i have been looking online for the perfect (but cheap) photojournalistic photog...im freaking right along with you!

flairforfashion Posted:

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I know how you feel. I had no problems booking all my other vendors but when it came to photogs, I was reluctant to book right away. Check out reviews and narrow it down from there. Good luck!

JackieV Posted:

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try not to stress... but i understand. Photography is a big deal bc u will have the pictures forever. Go with what u feel is right... everything will work out

Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

and FH is of no help. All he says is, 'their nice I like them' but im afraid he likes the price more than the pics. And, after awhile the pictures all start looking the same.

I do have to give him credit though he did pick out the album style he likes the best...magazine style.

I guess what I will do is just go with the photographer we both agreed on and just go from there. I mean if we hate our e-pics we could always just find another photographer right?



yes, i definitely think that if you don't have luck with the e-pics or just aren't satisfied, you can go back to the drawing board. the e-pics are a great way to see their work as it relates to you guys! i think you're going to make the right decision.
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Im gonna call tomorrow and book it. Thanks for listening!! Sometimes your single friends just dont understand this stuff
Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im gonna call tomorrow and book it. Thanks for listening!! Sometimes your single friends just dont understand this stuff



couldn't agree more! that's why it's awesome that we have this 'wedding outlet'. having each other keeps us sane, otherwise i think we'd drive our friends and family crazy! GL and once you book it, i think you'll feel better about it!
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Thanks! I will update you all tomorrow.

longislandlibrarian Posted:

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I totally undersatnd i was freaked out about photography toooooooooooooooo because it's soo important.. and i knew i wanted duet... but was still scared.. and then i saw my friends proofs from them.. and i was like ok you are making the right choice for YOU!!!!!!
Follow your heart...
ANT-N-BON-09 Posted:

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let us know who you book
dazies1011 Posted:

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I understand what you are saying, making these important decisions arent easy. I made most of them on my own without FH and when I went to my 4th photo appiontment, TP , I knew he was the one!!!! No turning back for me! The stress was gone. I look at other posts and see how other girls rave about other photographers and they do great work but, I am happy with Thomas Paul....work, price and personality. When you make the decision it will be the right one for YOU, then you will breathe.

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