Having second thoughts

NickandTara426 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:11 AM

Having second thoughts

I think I want a different dress.l I feel like I look fat and that my dress looks cheap

IDK how to resize I was going to add pix**

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 14, 2008 11:13 AM

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what dress did u get?

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: May 14, 2008 11:13 AM

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OMG are you talking about the dress in your album?!? It doesnt make you look fat and it doesnt look cheap at all!!

If you are not 100% satisfied with it then keep looking, but I think it looks great on you.

BarbieGrl10 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:14 AM

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No!!!!!! Dont be silly! You dress looks beautiful! I'm sure you will be a stunning bride!! Maybe your just having a bad day?

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 14, 2008 11:15 AM

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i just looked THE BOTTOM IS AMAZIGN and you DO NOT look fat.
Go try it on again and see how you feel. If you still feel that strongly about it... then make the decision from there. You want to be comfortable and happy in your dress :)

Kristina2009 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:16 AM

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It is beautiful (not cheap looking at all) and you look incredible in it!

Everyone has days when they doubt decisions at times - but I think your dress is a keeper!

NickandTara426 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:17 AM

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I don't know I'm just looking at more dresses online and I'm like I like that and then when I went to match shoes with it I was like OMG i think I made a mistake . I made the commitment and now I have to go through I've already bought the dress.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:17 AM

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Posted by Kristina2009

It is beautiful (not cheap looking at all) and you look incredible in it!

Everyone has days when they doubt decisions at times - but I think your dress is a keeper!

I agree...It's totally normal to have second thoughts but you looke amazing!

aimerlena01 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:18 AM

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You look great in it!! It's beautiful...and trust me you don't look fat. I'm hoping to get to a point where I look that good!

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: May 14, 2008 11:18 AM

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Posted by NickandTara426

I don't know I'm just looking at more dresses online and I'm like I like that and then when I went to match shoes with it I was like OMG i think I made a mistake . I made the commitment and now I have to go through I've already bought the dress.

If you dont love it you can sell it on ebay or even see if there are brides on here who will buy it from you. You might not get what you paid for it but at least you wont look back in your pics 25 years later and hate your dress.

MrsInglima Posted: May 14, 2008 11:20 AM

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I think your dress is beautiful and looks great on you, but speaking for personal experience, when I decided I didn't like my first dress nothing could convince me otherwise and I went out and got a second dress that I loooove. Granted, my parents were both pissed at me for wasting $400 on the first one, but it was worth it in my opinion, and I'll sell the first one eventually.

NickandTara426 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:20 AM

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Thank you all! But if I I sell it I think my mother will kill me HAHA!

MrsInglima Posted: May 14, 2008 11:22 AM

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Posted by NickandTara426

Thank you all! But if I I sell it I think my mother will kill me HAHA!

My mom won't even talk about the dress with me. But my peace of mind about how I will look is worth it.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:24 AM

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I think its very pretty but I agree with what the other girls said, if you're not in love with it you dont want to regret not changing it later. Go try it on again and see how you feel then make a decision.

flairforfashion Posted: May 14, 2008 11:24 AM

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I saw your dress. I don't think it's cheap at all. I think it's a beautiful dress and I love the lace detail on the bottom- very classy. If you are having second thoughts, I would keep looking- it's your wedding day- you should do everything the way you want to and have no regrets and that always includes the dress!

vicky1125 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:25 AM

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your dress is beautiful! i've had second thoughts too but when i look at my dress, i feel like i've mad the right decision. it's normal.

NickandTara426 Posted: May 14, 2008 11:28 AM

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Yea, I think I'm going to try it on again, or at least keep looking. I only went to two stores (I think that might part of my issue ) I think my parents will be upset, I know it's my day but I just don't want to see them waste their money. Though I could sell it here or ebay.

fabulousmady Posted: May 14, 2008 11:55 AM

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ur dress is so beautiful! and i think u look STUNNING in it.

by the way LOVE ur proposal pics. brought tears to my eyes remembering how i felt that day too! ur very lucky to have pics of that moment.

NickandTara426 Posted: May 14, 2008 12:00 PM

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Posted by fabulousmady

ur dress is so beautiful! and i think u look STUNNING in it.

by the way LOVE ur proposal pics. brought tears to my eyes remembering how i felt that day too! ur very lucky to have pics of that moment.

Thank you, I even have it on video lol, he said 'In front of my family and friends...' It's a blur from there! lol I was just crying after that.

WinterGrl09 Posted: May 14, 2008 12:05 PM

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What are you talking about... You definitely don't look fat. And that dress looks beautiful on you! I think we all second guess our choices in our wedding. Don't worry. Maybe you should try it on again and see how you feel.