having second thoughts...

FutureMrsC Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:16 PM

having second thoughts...

about my BM dresses. I'm really not in love with it. One of my BMs already put a deposit down on it but the salon said it could be applied to a different dress so no worries there.

I really like one of the new Watters dresses. If I change the BM dress I will more than likely have to pick a new MOH dress for my sister too (but she loves her dress). The new dress will probably be more expensive too. My mom said to just leave it alone but one of my other BMs really loves the new dress too. I haven't seen the Watters dress in person yet so who knows if I'll even like it our not but I have been rethinking the dresses for a lil while, and seeing a new one that I really like is making me so confused.

What should I do?

PROBM Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:18 PM

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put it on the backburner for the next 2 weeks and then revisit it... u r overthinking it right now and any desicion u make will be rushed.

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:19 PM

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im trying to wait until all the new BM dresses come out and I just fell in love with one of the new watters dresses...actually its a Wtoo....which is the one you have your eye on and which is the BM dress you already ordered for your girls?

fabulousmady Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:20 PM

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I was always told that once you pick a dress NOT to look at any others or it could make you have second thoughts. Of course this is almost impossible since every wedding magazine or email we get has pics of dresses.
Speak to your bm's since they are the ones who will be wearing the dress and see what they think about the new dress. You mite also have to get them together to try it on since it usually looks different wen u try them on.
Good luck!

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:22 PM

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I would go see the new dress and have the girls try them on, I would want to be 100% happy with my dresses.

FutureMrsC Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:27 PM

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honestly I have been having second thought even before I saw another dress I liked. I think the dress is nice enough and I am sure it will look fine, I am just not in love with it...I feel it looks too boxy.

Here is the original dress…

And here is the new Watters dress…

FutureMrsC Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:44 PM

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Posted by PROBM

put it on the backburner for the next 2 weeks and then revisit it... u r overthinking it right now and any desicion u make will be rushed.

good point...I am definitely overthinking it...I always overthink things and drive myself crazy.

NickandTara426 Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:45 PM

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I agree I would think about it and have all of the girls try it on and then see how you feel in a few weeks!

FutureMrsG Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:47 PM

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They are both beautiful dresses...but if you are having second thoughts you could have the bm try both of them on- if one store has both of them you could see them side by side.

PoppedInASnap Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:52 PM

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OH NO...Im the other bridesmaid that like the dress. Dont listen to me pleaseee lolol....

PoppedInASnap Posted: Jun 11, 2008 02:53 PM

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why dont I try it on next week? Then you can see how fat I got

FutureMrsC Posted: Jun 11, 2008 03:00 PM

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

OH NO...Im the other bridesmaid that like the dress. Dont listen to me pleaseee lolol....

No...I really love this on (so much that I want to wear it...lol) Don't worry you didn't change my mind.

FutureMrsC Posted: Jun 11, 2008 03:02 PM

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

why dont I try it on next week? Then you can see how fat I got

Yes...I will be making you try on many other dresses. Sorry but I am going to torture you with this decision.

And once you get measured it will prove that I am right and you will never be able to complain you are fat ever again b/c YOU ARE NOT FAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Back me up on this one girls.)