Having second thoughts about my dress....

Djenki2 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:24 AM

Having second thoughts about my dress....

with 4 months to go I don't know what to do. Anyone else have second thoughts about their dress? what did you do?

lmr2282 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:34 AM

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I did... Big time. But then I went to try it on and it made me feel so much better. Have you tried that yet?

Djenki2 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:38 AM

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Posted by lmr2282

I did... Big time. But then I went to try it on and it made me feel so much better. Have you tried that yet?

Nope.... maybe I should. My second thoughts are also complicated by the fact that I initially thought I was going to have a morning wedding. I know it shouldn't have mattered but I picked out a dress with a matte finish for my morning wedding and now I wish I had a satin finish because I'm getting married at 5pm.

occhi21 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:40 AM

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Your dress is AMAZING, its is stunning. You can wear it at anytime!! What does that matter??

sharivera Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:48 AM

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Posted by Djenki2

Posted by lmr2282

I did... Big time. But then I went to try it on and it made me feel so much better. Have you tried that yet?

Nope.... maybe I should. My second thoughts are also complicated by the fact that I initially thought I was going to have a morning wedding. I know it shouldn't have mattered but I picked out a dress with a matte finish for my morning wedding and now I wish I had a satin finish because I'm getting married at 5pm.

I don't think the finish matters, its the way you carry it...you're going to be all dolled up..you will look great!! go try it on again..have you had your makeup or hair trial yet? if not maybe go try it on after a trial to get the full effect? good luck!!

Djenki2 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:49 AM

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I guess it doesn't.... I'm just soooooo nervous these days and I'm second guessing everything. I just want perfection. LOL. I know things are bound to happen on my wedding day but I want to look perfect and I don't know if my dress is giving me that WOW factor. Probably just nerves but I am on the phone with my mom right now looking at other dresses online

beram63 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:52 AM

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you look absolutely beautiful in your gown. i too have commitment issues with the dress, but i say just put it our of your mind. you're going to be a stunning bride

Karsav7096 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:53 AM

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your dress is gorgeous don't worry but I know what your saying I have second thoughts about my
dress but when I put it on I love it.

Ann 52409 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:54 AM

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Posted by Djenki2

I guess it doesn't.... I'm just soooooo nervous these days and I'm second guessing everything. I just want perfection. LOL. I know things are bound to happen on my wedding day but I want to look perfect and I don't know if my dress is giving me that WOW factor. Probably just nerves but I am on the phone with my mom right now looking at other dresses online

Ohhhhh my gosh hun, step away from the computer. Call me, go work out, something but dont order another dress. Both of the dresses are so beautiful.You are going to be an amazing bride.

Ann 52409 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 07:55 AM

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Trust me I think I second guessed every single vendor I have

Im a Pepper Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:09 AM

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Your dress is stunning. I wish that I were wearing it!!!!! I've definitely had second thoughts but when I tried it on I fell in love all over again! Go visit your dress - I bet you'll get the same feeling you did when you bought it!

occhi21 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:09 AM

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Posted by Ann 52409

Trust me I think I second guessed every single vendor I have

I second guess everything! Step away from the computer dont look at other dresses!!

kristentinnelly Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:12 AM

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Dont worry about the material of the dress.....its stunning!!!! Maybe go adn try on teh dress again for some peace of mind. I think your dress is perfect for anytime of day you get married

Djenki2 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:14 AM

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thank you ladies soooooooooooo much. i feel better. maybe i should go get my dress bustled and clip the tags off so i can't even think about selling it. hehehehehe

dana1206 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:15 AM

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I am totally having second thoughts. I bought my dress on ebay so I didn't have the whole experience of trying on dresses and feeling like 'this is the one.' I've started looking online and have found some that I think are gorgeous. I can't decide what to do. Now that my wedding is pushed back to December (it was March), I have some time so might just go look

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:20 AM

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I think everyone goes through this... go visit it and try it on again. You'll fall back in love!

Djenki2 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:28 AM

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I now know what has me stressed out....
I was a couch potato yesterday and watched about 4 episodes of My Fair Wedding. Then I started thinking about what David Tutera would say about my wedding! hahahaha Flowers 'wrong,' Venu 'needs help,' Dress 'Oh no!' LMAO

glenisland09 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 08:55 AM

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All I can input is that your dress is beautiful and you look AMAZING in it. I think that dress would be perfect for a 5pm wedding... honestly!!!

CandB4604 Posted: Jan 19, 2009 09:04 AM

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Oh my gosh - if thats still your dress in your albums, you look amazing in it and it looks like such a special dress. :)

I love the cake pic! hahaha

QUIA Posted: Jan 19, 2009 09:35 AM

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OMG!!! Your dress is so AMAZING! And you look and will look amazing in it. You are just nervous as your day approaches. Dont go crazy... you are over thinking. Which is normal You are going to be fine.. KEEP THE DRESS!

Try it on again... Im sure you will fall in love all over!