having that kind of day

Freaking out about things that i still have plenty of time to worry about!! have u guys ever had that kind of day...im worried about the ceremony, (3 family members want to sing and i have no idea how that's going to work in only a 30-40min ceremony!) and reception music...worried about the fact that FH and I still haven't had a chance to both be in NY to do the e-shoot to make STDs and our ONE YEAR mark is approaching wayyyy fast. I'm going to have to just do them myself...i hate waiting! worried i still haven't really talked to FMIL who's in PR about ANYTHING!!! Going to PR after xmas, hopefully in person will be easier to bring things up. I need to get addresses from his mom!! My mom told me to walk around with pen and paper at his family party and get them myself!! grrr how embarassing. Worried that FH and I will be separated in med school since he still hasn't passed his boards poor guy and he's trying sooo hard to be done before xmas! MAN i'm going nuts@!!!

thanks for letting me vent

Don't worry! It always comes together. I'm sure your FMIL will get all of the addresses for you. Why don't you have FH ask her to gather them so that you can just get them from her when you are there? Also ing for your FH! I hope he passes in time!

You are totally allowed to have those 'why me?' sorta moments - but in the end it will all work out.

Why?? b/c you are planning a wedding - and that's one of the happiest days ever... so of course bumps in the road will occur, but just think about what the end result is.

Fingers crossed for your FH and his boards!!!

to you

Everything will work out! It is just that there are so many things going on at once so I'm sure it is overwhelming. You do have a lot of time to plan so try not to stress too much. My sister planned her wedding in 6 months and her wedding was absolutely beautiful...so try not to stress over the amount of time you have to plan. You are def on track with a little over a year! I am praying for your FH with his boards!! Best of luck to him!!

everything will come together and your wedding will be everything you ever imagined and more!! All these little details will work themselves out. Maybe a few of FH family members have fb or email where you can keep in touch and get address that way...