I'm at the 88 day mark....had my first fitting yesterday, so yeah it's def hitting me : )
but...
As I know many of you have posted about this already, sometimes I feel the amount of work, planning, stress, the length of your to-do list, etc. is so overwhelming that you aren't getting excited for the wedding itself?
My mom is getting so excited, planting white flowers all around the house, repainting things - I mean I LOVE that, but maybe I'm just not used to or like having the attention on me. I almost don't want to deal with it all.
I work from home and literally can not get myself motivated to do work today or even worse make decisions for the wedding.
Today has been ZERO progress on all fronts...
OK, that's it
StaceyWill
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joctorre
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I know the feeling. I am at 115 days and I still have SO much to do that it's getting to be a nightmare... My girls are just ordering their dresses and everyone seems to be coming to me about the dress and their measurements as if I know which size to get. Hello??? I am not wearing that dress..... i have NO IDEA... call the shop again
Try to do something that is a bit more fun for this part. check out your honeymoon stuff again, or go through your registry and see waht it is tht you REALLY want... stuff that is FUN motivates me a little more (and gets me a little more excited)
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I think most people get to this point (sometimes often) that the work and stress takes away the fun part of planning. Let the excitement of others carry you along till you find the happiness or fun back in the planning. I only talk about wedding crap on LIW or with FHs family, Im over alot of it by now- so much shizz to still do. Take a minutes off and do something fun you would of done before planning
MrsSx2
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Sorry you're in a funk!
sprinkle23
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you girls are the best, thank you so much.
i think having the fitting yesterday just hit me...of course it's a beautiful thing and i love my dress, i guess just start second guessing some things.........
jennybee
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It can be scary and overwhelming. Have your stress-filled moment and then get back to trying to enjoy the process and what all this work will culminate in...a beautiful union between you and the one you will spend the rest of your life with!!!
And when you have those moments...we're here for you!!!!
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Posted by jennybee
It can be scary and overwhelming. Have your stress-filled moment and then get back to trying to enjoy the process and what all this work will culminate in...a beautiful union between you and the one you will spend the rest of your life with!!!
And when you have those moments...we're here for you!!!!
I LOVE YOU GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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halfbaked
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If you're feeling burnt out, take a day off. Of work, of weddign planning, of everything/anything in particular. It'll help.
Also, I was stressed the entire month before the wedding. I hated it and everyone. I wanted nothing more than to forget about getting married entirely! And then I woke up on the morning of the wedding and I didn't care! I just did NOT care about all the drama and the stress and all the things that I wanted but couldn't have because I was getting married that day! And all my hard work came to fruition! And NOTHING and I mean NOTHING (Short of the groom not showing up) could've ruined my day!
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If you're feeling burnt out, take a day off. Of work, of weddign planning, of everything/anything in particular. It'll help.
Also, I was stressed the entire month before the wedding. I hated it and everyone. I wanted nothing more than to forget about getting married entirely! And then I woke up on the morning of the wedding and I didn't care! I just did NOT care about all the drama and the stress and all the things that I wanted but couldn't have because I was getting married that day! And all my hard work came to fruition! And NOTHING and I mean NOTHING (Short of the groom not showing up) could've ruined my day!
that's how i feel now sometimes! i don't want to talk to anyone LOL! but I hope i feel the same way on the wedding day, I'm sure I will : )
