Heather!

I caught you! what are you doing on here so late?

same here! I am sooooooo happy to have tomorrow off!! Plus I have insomnia
I havent had a good nights sleep in days

lol! Hey I was thinking our first dance could be ' if I was a rich girl' what do you think?

lol I think IM so tired IM getting delirious

What about for the bridal party ' gangsta paradise'

I wish!! I ordered my invites finally and now im trying to pay everything off.
All the big stuff is booked, now its all the little stuff.

Does this sound stupid? I was thinking of having an arch for the church.. i think I told you that but I wanted them to use the flowers and try to make it heart shaped.. know what I mean? think that would look weird?

I think it would look nice BUT are you having a short ceremony or a full mass? Do you think its worth it for the short one?

Well then again I dont know if you should be asking me cause I am not having any decorations at all besides pew bows!

That church is so nice - it doesnt necessarily need it.....are you having topiaries or anything on the sides?

You know what we never talked about about that church is that the vestibule doors are clear-glass so our ( ) grand entrance will have to be made through 2 doors so no one sees us. We will have to hang outside.

I know its sucks for me b/c its going to be really cold out!
Maybe I will hang from the cieling and drop down? lmao

Well I would use it first in the church ( not doing ANY other decoration in there.. not even pew bow) and then they would move it to sandcastle and put it behind the 'thrown' where we sit. so it kind of goes over us but its behind us. But its kind of $$$$
Joe says for me to do whatever I want
They said also for the same price they could do huge (2 of them) 7 1/2 foot pillars with a HUGE flower arrangement on top of each.. it would be the same as our centerpieces but 10x the size

Wait....before you make any decisions.....check with the church to see if you can take out the flowers once you are done with them at the church to transport to Sandcastle. Remember when I was having church problems? One church told us that we couldnt remove the flowers after the ceremony, we had to leave them for the church!!!

But that does sound really pretty!!! We arent going to have anything behind us at all.... Why dont halls have something like that set up already ya know!!??

Also we are having father Wilson marry us...he didnt say that we had to have a deacon??

Thats a good idea I am going tomorrow to get my papers for pre cana. we have to go soon I cant believe how time is flying.

I dont know.. when I started wedding planning I was so against spending alot of $$ on flowers b/c I could care less and now im obsessed with them lol
your right the halls should have stuff like that already!! even if we paid a little fee to use them it would save us soooo much. and they would still make $$ off of it.
I know someone who is doing an arch of balloons behind them.

I dont know why they gave us the deacon. they said b/c we arent having a mass and its on sunday ?!?!

Hmmm I have to ask next time we go because he said he could marry us if we want. Maybe its different cause we are a Friday afternoon?

Hey dude maybe I will pop into your ceremony I just realized I could do that! You have a little over 5 months! I swear I am crapping my pants with 7 1/2 months!!!

But yeah you know if you have the $ go for it. I know what you mean about flowers though...since I booked my florist I see how beautiful they are and how many different kinds there are and I am loving them lately too...

that reminds me! I forgot to tell you I saw your sample cp and they are GORGEOUS!!! wow great taste!! so classy!!

I would LOVE LOVE LOVE if you came by for the ceremony!!! dont remind me about having 5 mos now I really wont sleep!
( sad thing is im not kidding!!) lol

Oh I dont want you to not sleep! I just cant believe how fast time is going - its so exciting!!!

I am so glad you like my centerpiece!!! You know what I havent seen one that your new place gave you!!! I cant believe you didnt want Francis Lewis representing at your wedding though. After all that with the CP!!

Well its no problem to pop into each others ceremonies!! I mean its convenient, why not!?!?

you are too funny!
I loved franny lew but I just didnt like there water tubes I was having nightmares of them leaking and tipping over on people
Can you imagine?!?!?!?!

I know I have to have them make it again and take pics!!! it similar to the other sample kind of... just a different base.

I am definitly sneaking into your ceremony!!!
It is getting close now isnt it!?!?!?!

I know you changed your mind about those - but I highly doubt they would have leaked!!! Okay at least I have an idea of what your new CP will look like....are you getting a sample bo-k too? I dont know if I should get my bo-k sample or the BMs?

Well yeah I am about to die - I always felt that my wedding was so far away but its coming so fast its scary. Its like this was the last summer I will ever be not-married!??!?!

ohmigosh I didnt even think of that!
But I feel married b/c we have been living together so long and the baby and everything.. but still!!

I knew I was in trouble the first time I was talking to a vendor and instead of giving me a funny look or telling me how much time I had they actually said the wedding was soon!! I literally almost


eta. I think I am going to ask for a sample bok just to see the actual size and feel how heavy. I dont really care about the bm ones though! lol j/k

Really??? What about if the girls ones are ugly or something!?!?! Yeah I am so scared about mine though - I guess it is more important!!!

I do feel married too - we have been together for 4 1/2 years and living together for 3....but its like a weird thing when you know you are MARRIED. Its different from just being engaged....ahhhh dont listen to me I dont want to scare you ior make you upset - these are the insane things I think about!