Help!

This girl was my best friend, we used to talk on the phone at least once a week and then ever since I moved to LI, she never calls me (she lives in Queens and works in Manhattan).

To me, IMHO, I had asked all my BM to get their hair done, for the fact I'm spending good money on the photos, I wanted everyone to look their best, and I told them this. This was one main point of fact I had for each. I didn't care about the shoes, or the dress (although they all agreed to wear the same one, which they all had the choice to choose different styles in the same shade of color), or the make up, just that their hair looked nice and the dress was altered.

This BM is now avoiding me like she has for the last 6-8 months when she bailed on one BM at JFK airport, made my brother pay for her flight to my bridal shower, goes and buys a $1k digital camera and goes shopping in Manhattan, but doesn't have the money to get her hair done or alterations.

Honestly, at this point right before the wedding, what is the cost of the dress going to cost you?

$300 or so.. I say, buy the dress back from her.... and bye bye drama BM.

You don't need that, she does not seem to care whatsoever, why have a long face party pooper BM at your wedding?

I know it's more $ to pay but in the scale of your wedding cost AND your peace and quiet.... cut her loose!!!!

I told you I'd buy a dress and get my hair done....

I agree-I would buy the dress from her and avoid the extra aggravation. I'm sorry.