Help! Bridal Shower Invite Question

Hi Ladies. I am having a hard time with my Bridal Shower invite list...my Mom and BP are pressuring me for this list but I don't know what to do. My FH entire family lives in Puerto Rico and will not be flying in for the Bridal Shower (most probably won't even be able to make it to the wedding). Do I still send them a Bridal Shower invite? I don't want to seem like I sending it to them just for the gift and at the same time I don't want his aunts/cousins to feel like I was rude and didn't send the invite to them. Also some of his family won't be able to make it to the wedding but might want to send a gift...how will they know about our registry if they don't get the Bridal Shower invite? I am so confused and don't know the right thing to do...please help!

YES! Def send them an invite!!!
They may feel offended if u dont send one!!!

Send them an invite because you want them there, even though they may not come. They may decide last minute to come up for the weekend.

Be sure to let your mom and whoever else is planning that these people may not come so don't get a place that won't be able to accomodate too little or too many guests.

Who knows your FH family in PR may throw one down there for you in absentia.