Help! DIY engagement invitations... (RP from BHB)

Please help with wording for DIY engagement invitations....

Also... Whose name comes first on the invitation? The guy or girl?

TIA!

I put my name first.

as far as wording, i think it depends what the invite looks like, and style, or theme.... in my opinion.

I think the girl is supposed to come first because of tradition.

As far as wording here are a couple of sites that may help. Or you can do a search I am sure there is a thread out there. Good luck!

http://www.invitesgalore.com/invitation-wording.htm

http://weddings.about.com/od/weddinginvitations/a/BasicWording.htm

http://www.formal-invitations.com/invitation-text.html

Here is a thread I saved in my notebook cause i am doing mine tonight haha

Invite wording for e-party