HELP[! HONEYMOON HEADACHE

Ok girls so im stressing about booking my honeymoon!!! I am thinking of doing Dominican Republic because We want all inclusive and dont want to fly to far... we have been looking at Hard Rock punta cana for the first week...then secrets sanctuary cap cana... google them.. let me know what u think! the hard rock is not adults only, but we are going in novemeber and r hoping there wont be tons of kids! lol...it is brand new and has tons of restaurants and stuff to do.. the secrets resort is smaller and is more low key and relaxing/romantic... do u think we are making a bad choice by doing a not adults only resort for the first week??? i thought it would be nice to party and have fun the first week then relax the second..the best of both worlds?? what do u girls think.. TA is holding the rooms til wed so i have to make a decision!!