Re: HELP!!! I AM HAVING A MENTAL BREAKDOWN
These girls sound like prizes. Seriously. However, it sounds to me like the problem here is that everybody is in each other's business, and at 27, that's not good.
If your MOH is mad at your FH, why is she getting another friend mad at YOU? What do YOU have to do with it?? And what does this other girl have to do with it?
I will say a few things in her defense. I don't think it was FH's and his friends' business to involve themselves in their relationship issues. If she slept with other guys while they were broken up, what business is that of theirs?? I know the guy is their friend, but that's something the couple has to work out, not the friends. Frankly, if some friend of my guy gave me an ultimatum about ANYTHING, I'd lose it. If she slept around, why is that your FH's business to force her to tell him? I know he wants to protect his friend, but seriously. It just was not his business.
Also, if she was promiscuous, is it your place to judge her on that? So what if she was? I'm sure HE had a few experiences when they were broken up. Was HE promiscuous? And even if they BOTH were, who is anyone else to judge them and call them out on it? They are 27. These are two grown people who should be able to do as they please, without people judging them for their actions.
I don't have both sides of the story, but from what you've said, your MOH doesn't sound like she has your best interests at heart. If she has a problem with your FH for what he did (which I sort of understand), then why is she taking it out on YOU?? And above and beyond that, why is she involving the other girl?? Sounds like the other girl is an impressionable idiot to take your MOH at her word and not try to find out from you if what she said is correct or not.
Please don't misread what I've written- I am so sorry you are going through this BS- people can truly be the worst. I'm just trying to see where your MOH's behavior could be coming from, because it seems SO mean, it has to have a reason. Best of luck to you!!
If your MOH is mad at your FH, why is she getting another friend mad at YOU? What do YOU have to do with it?? And what does this other girl have to do with it?
I will say a few things in her defense. I don't think it was FH's and his friends' business to involve themselves in their relationship issues. If she slept with other guys while they were broken up, what business is that of theirs?? I know the guy is their friend, but that's something the couple has to work out, not the friends. Frankly, if some friend of my guy gave me an ultimatum about ANYTHING, I'd lose it. If she slept around, why is that your FH's business to force her to tell him? I know he wants to protect his friend, but seriously. It just was not his business.
Also, if she was promiscuous, is it your place to judge her on that? So what if she was? I'm sure HE had a few experiences when they were broken up. Was HE promiscuous? And even if they BOTH were, who is anyone else to judge them and call them out on it? They are 27. These are two grown people who should be able to do as they please, without people judging them for their actions.
I don't have both sides of the story, but from what you've said, your MOH doesn't sound like she has your best interests at heart. If she has a problem with your FH for what he did (which I sort of understand), then why is she taking it out on YOU?? And above and beyond that, why is she involving the other girl?? Sounds like the other girl is an impressionable idiot to take your MOH at her word and not try to find out from you if what she said is correct or not.
Please don't misread what I've written- I am so sorry you are going through this BS- people can truly be the worst. I'm just trying to see where your MOH's behavior could be coming from, because it seems SO mean, it has to have a reason. Best of luck to you!!
