Help, I'm so confused what dress to buy

I love Demetrios and feel in love with two dresses, but there were two other dresses that actually made me cry. I know they say you cry when it's 'the dress', they reason why i didn't consider them at first was because I pictured myself in a classic victorian, sexy dress, with some lace. These 2 dresses are satin. THe ones I am attaching are in white, but I would get it in ivory. Please let me know if you think these two have a victorian look if they were in ivory, so please try to picture it in ivory.

the one attached is the one that made me and my mom cry.