Help! Is it my place to say something...
Sorry so LONG!
To make a long story as short as possible, I promise it could be longer :), my sister has been having issues with her FH's sister for quite awhile. Never did they seem to get along but things got worse when they got engaged b/c she's been waiting for her bf of several years to propose. So the green eyed monster reared its ugly head.
Anyway, this girl has done nothing but give my sister grief. She is VERY competitive which my sister is not. Even her parents feed into it. With everything my sister plans for the wedding, her parents go on about when SHE gets married what they will do. Again, SHE's not even engaged. We are talking down to the cermony music. They stopped during a joint family Christmas dinner to announce that the song being played at that moment is what SHEl will have played at her ceremony. Anyway, that's the background. Now comes the shower time...
My mom and I asked my sister's friend to help get her out of the house. We have not heard back from her yet. My mother mentions it to HER mom, (my sisters FMIL) and she suggested that her son and my sister go over her daughters house to help her move in! Like that's exactly what my sister wants to do. That will really put her in a mood to start her shower. So with that, obviously SHE, a BM by the way, no longer plans on coming early with the rest of us to help. When SHE herself, tells me, is it my place to say something about how disappointed I am that she has had so little to do with planning the shower and now no help the day of. Afterall, she is going to my sisters SIL. I really thought she would put aside her pettiness and jelousy and take the high road. So, is it my place to say something or should I bite my tongue yet again? It's just my sister is so sweet and so innocent and to be treated by this girl and her FIL's makes me ill. She would never say anything, should I plant a seed with the shower issue to maybe open her eyes?
To make a long story as short as possible, I promise it could be longer :), my sister has been having issues with her FH's sister for quite awhile. Never did they seem to get along but things got worse when they got engaged b/c she's been waiting for her bf of several years to propose. So the green eyed monster reared its ugly head.
Anyway, this girl has done nothing but give my sister grief. She is VERY competitive which my sister is not. Even her parents feed into it. With everything my sister plans for the wedding, her parents go on about when SHE gets married what they will do. Again, SHE's not even engaged. We are talking down to the cermony music. They stopped during a joint family Christmas dinner to announce that the song being played at that moment is what SHEl will have played at her ceremony. Anyway, that's the background. Now comes the shower time...
My mom and I asked my sister's friend to help get her out of the house. We have not heard back from her yet. My mother mentions it to HER mom, (my sisters FMIL) and she suggested that her son and my sister go over her daughters house to help her move in! Like that's exactly what my sister wants to do. That will really put her in a mood to start her shower. So with that, obviously SHE, a BM by the way, no longer plans on coming early with the rest of us to help. When SHE herself, tells me, is it my place to say something about how disappointed I am that she has had so little to do with planning the shower and now no help the day of. Afterall, she is going to my sisters SIL. I really thought she would put aside her pettiness and jelousy and take the high road. So, is it my place to say something or should I bite my tongue yet again? It's just my sister is so sweet and so innocent and to be treated by this girl and her FIL's makes me ill. She would never say anything, should I plant a seed with the shower issue to maybe open her eyes?
