help me

ok- so my wedding was perfect- except for one TERRIBLE issue with a certain vendor. I am not ready to write my review yet, but I want to write about that vendor RIGHT AWAY to warn everyone...but I don't know if there are any rules about writing something not-good about someone...Iol...i know this may be silly but can someone tell me if there are things I have to watch out for??

thanks!

This is from LIW directly - it's posted on the site.

I would keep this in mind when posting:
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I think you should be able to give an honest review and all vendors!!! PLEASE FM me who you had issues with? I really would like to avoid if possible!!!
Also... sorry you had a bad experience with someone on your wedding

CONGRATS THOUGH!!!!!

I would just plainly state the facts of what the vendor did or did not do and do NOT use words like 'stay away', 'Avoid' 'do not use' etc. Basically, you can't tell everyone not to give them business but I believe you can be fair about YOUR experience.

I think it's important that girls share their experiences, good and bad

Glad everything else went well

'There are many factors that can determine vendor's pricing (time of day/year, options selected, location, embellishments, etc). Posting a vendor's price for a specific event could give a bride/groom to-be an inaccurate account of what the price maybe for their wedding, hence posting vendor pricing is not allowed.'

wow, didn't know that! Everyone (including me) does this all the time!