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Help me with a Special shower gift

lizzie217 Posted:

Help me with a Special shower gift

My SIL and brother's shower is this weekend and I want to do a thoughful gift. Something along the lines of 'for your wedding night...' 'First Anniversary'....'First fight'....'First baby'...

Can you guys think of something cute like this?

Thanks

NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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Maybe get a gift certificate to a restaurant for a 'first date?' Find out where they went? Give them a 'date night.'

DeeluvsVinny Posted:

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I did a wine basket for my cousin's shower. there's a poem...and it says something about each speacial day in the marriage...and you just pick out different bottles for each part.

they loved it and when I read the poem, she cried!
futuremrsfab Posted:

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there is something called the candle prayer that my friends and I always do- it involves a set of candles that you light on the first, fifth anniversaries, on the birth of your first child- etc- its really moving. I have to email my friend to get it, but its so nice. So maybe you could read that & put together the basket as part of your gift

MISSJESSSSS Posted:

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My sister in law did this absoultly adorable basket of ever cleaner you can think of, and wrote this really sweet card, saying about being happy while cleaning after my baby brother! it made me cry, it was so cute! (i guess because i love to clean)
del Rio Posted:

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There is a candle poem that involves all of your firsts:

A Basket of Candles
For [insert Bride's name]

A basket of candles that come in a pair
In all different colors, for you two to share
The white ones burn first
They are wrapped in white lace
To celebrate your first married night
In your new chosen place.
The green pair is taller, and also much thinner
Burn with the first company, you have over for dinner.
The dark blue candles are for after your first fight
Use them to burn while making up all night.
Pink candles set the mood and pave the way
For your first married Valentine’s Day.
Now, when your first year of marriage is through
The cream anniversary pair, will light for you two.
Red candles aflame, both your futures are bright
Celebrate promotions you’ve worked toward with all of your might.
By this time we hope, maybe, just maybe
You can light the purple ones, on the birth of your baby.
And just when you thought you’d put these away
Take the light blue ones out-for your fifth anniversary day.
Now just one more pair left - for the big 2 5
The anniversary pair that will keep your love alive.
Congratulations [insert Bride and Groom's names]
On the start of your forever
May the two of you always be happy together
And burn these candles
Just the way we said
But please don’t forget-blow them out before bed!

LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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there is a wine basket for this...

champagne for the wedding night

red wine for first fight

then cider for first baby...

I used to have it - maybe try googling 'bridal shower wine poem'?

Sorry I couldn't be more help!
LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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Found it:

Wedding Night- (white tulle) (Champagne)

The night you have dreamed of is finally here.
The future surrounds you with hope and yet fear.
You’ve wanted so long to find your mate.
Sip this wine and toast this date.
The night is meant for you to share.
Enjoy each other a perfect pair.


First Dinner party- (gold tulle) (white wine)

As you open your home to all of your friends to entertain and eat.
It’s a place for old friends to catch up and new ones to meet.
When the night is over two great hosts can share this bottle of wine.
But don’t sit down yet pull up your sleeves because now it’s clean up time.

First fight- (black tulle) (red wine)

When fights occur as they sometimes will and tempers are steaming hot.
Pour a glass take a sip and be thankful for what you’ve got.
For in a marriage if everyone agreed it would certainly be a bore.
And by asking for my friends hand Jordan’s surely in for more!

Christmas Eve- (red and green tulle) (beaujolais)

A wise man turned to a friend and said wine is better than beer.
And now is the season for friends and fun and lots of holiday cheer.
So pop the cork and relax a bit and when the night is through,
kiss goodnight, close your eyes and Santa will be good to you.

First Anniversary- (cream tulle) (white wine)

Tonight you’ve been married a year one wonders where the time goes.
No longer are you newlyweds, soon you’ll be pro’s.
I hope the days have found you both in good health and spirit.
Keep saying I love you one always needs to hear it.
Now toast this date known as the first but certainly not the last.
And as you build your future don’t ever forget the past.

1st Baby-(pink and blue tulle) (champagne) YOU CAN CHANGE THISE TO READ DIFFERENTLY IF YOU WANT SPARKLING CIDER....

The news that a baby will soon share your life will make you a mother not only a wife.
You’ll see it through good times and sometimes bad.
Leslie the loving mother, and Jordan the dearest dad.
Now Jordan must drink this one alone, and Leslie with empty glass.
Sit back and relax nine months they quickly pass!
lizzie217 Posted:

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Girls you are helping me so much! Thanks!
klovess14 Posted:

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Where was this post when I had my sisters shower I'll have to revise on of the poems and give it to her for her first anniversary
KK Holiday Posted:

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Posted by soon2bemrsdelrio

There is a candle poem that involves all of your firsts:

A Basket of Candles
For [insert Bride's name]

A basket of candles that come in a pair
In all different colors, for you two to share
The white ones burn first
They are wrapped in white lace
To celebrate your first married night
In your new chosen place.
The green pair is taller, and also much thinner
Burn with the first company, you have over for dinner.
The dark blue candles are for after your first fight
Use them to burn while making up all night.
Pink candles set the mood and pave the way
For your first married Valentine’s Day.
Now, when your first year of marriage is through
The cream anniversary pair, will light for you two.
Red candles aflame, both your futures are bright
Celebrate promotions you’ve worked toward with all of your might.
By this time we hope, maybe, just maybe
You can light the purple ones, on the birth of your baby.
And just when you thought you’d put these away
Take the light blue ones out-for your fifth anniversary day.
Now just one more pair left - for the big 2 5
The anniversary pair that will keep your love alive.
Congratulations [insert Bride and Groom's names]
On the start of your forever
May the two of you always be happy together
And burn these candles
Just the way we said
But please don’t forget-blow them out before bed!




thank you for posting this! it is so sweet!

i cried when i read it!!!
del Rio Posted:

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Posted by KK Holiday


Posted by soon2bemrsdelrio

There is a candle poem that involves all of your firsts:

A Basket of Candles
For [insert Bride's name]

A basket of candles that come in a pair
In all different colors, for you two to share
The white ones burn first
They are wrapped in white lace
To celebrate your first married night
In your new chosen place.
The green pair is taller, and also much thinner
Burn with the first company, you have over for dinner.
The dark blue candles are for after your first fight
Use them to burn while making up all night.
Pink candles set the mood and pave the way
For your first married Valentine’s Day.
Now, when your first year of marriage is through
The cream anniversary pair, will light for you two.
Red candles aflame, both your futures are bright
Celebrate promotions you’ve worked toward with all of your might.
By this time we hope, maybe, just maybe
You can light the purple ones, on the birth of your baby.
And just when you thought you’d put these away
Take the light blue ones out-for your fifth anniversary day.
Now just one more pair left - for the big 2 5
The anniversary pair that will keep your love alive.
Congratulations [insert Bride and Groom's names]
On the start of your forever
May the two of you always be happy together
And burn these candles
Just the way we said
But please don’t forget-blow them out before bed!




thank you for posting this! it is so sweet!

i cried when i read it!!!



YOUR WELCOME! That's the one my bridal party read to me on my shower.

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