HELP!! My wedding doesn't seem 'REAL' yet... I feel overwhelmed!
sarahradio5
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HELP!! My wedding doesn't seem 'REAL' yet... I feel overwhelmed!
I speak of details... yet haven't done them yet...
I've had my major vendors booked for awhile...
I want to lose more weight before I go try on my dress, which is waiting for me at Macy's...
no one seems to really be THAT interested in my wedding with me (besides my MOH)...
no one really is HANDS on in helping me... not even ME!!!
I really can't motivate myself to DO anything for my wedding... it seems surreal to me that it's in FOUR months and I don't know if I think all these details are just gonna happen on their own!
I think I just feel overwhelmed... and when that happens... I don't do ANYTHING!!!
Help!! Anyone else feel like me?
ewickens
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Just take each item to do one at a time and things will get done soon enough!!! This is what I'm doing, so I don't feel overwhelmed!
FallBride05
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you're my 'almost' date twin... I got married on 11/13 last year....
You will find everything will definately fall into place. It hit me like a ton of bricks when I picked my invites up from the printer that I was really getting married. They went out 4 weeks later and then time just flew. But by the week before the wedding, once the programs were assembled and everything was packed for the hall, there really was nothing left to do but relax.
futuremrsGafforio
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You are def not alone!!! I need to get my a** moving, and I am a couple weeks before you!!!
sarahradio5
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Posted by futuremrsGafforio
You are def not alone!!! I need to get my a** moving, and I am a couple weeks before you!!!
I feel like I'm playing 'make believe' with this wedding talk! Like the programs and cry packs and I DO letters are all just MAGICALLY going to APPEAR at my wedding!!! Guess what, Sarah!?!!? YOU HAVE TO DO THEM!!!!
I'm glad I'm not alone... thank you!
The fact that the one thing I DID do... my favors... need a PLAN B because the PROTOTYPE BROKE didn't help me. It's VERY discouraging!!!
klingklang77
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you arent alone. i felt like that too a few months ago. and i left things to the last minute, so now i am working constantly on DIY things.
start making a schedule, you need to get organised. it helps a lot. do things that can be done ahead of time- like making up your must play list and must take photos etc. if you are getting married in a church, do your ceremony stuff as soon as you can.
HTH and try to take a step back and think of things one by one. thinking of everything at once is what is causing you feeling this way.
Mandyin2007
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I feel exactly the same!
October Bliss
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Posted by sarahradio5
I feel like I'm playing 'make believe' with this wedding talk! Like the programs and cry packs and I DO letters are all just MAGICALLY going to APPEAR at my wedding!!! Guess what, Sarah!?!!? YOU HAVE TO DO THEM!!!!
That sounds like my FH! Programs, cry packs, We Do letters - they are all just going to magically appear at the wedding!!!
