Help on picking a venue

Picking a venue seems to be the most trouble for us. We saw 10 places before we finally agreed that the Thatched Cottage was the one for us. Now, it's closing down, so we need a place all over again. Here are the things I'm looking for, if anyone has ideas:

-I want enough cocktail space to fit all 150-175 of my guests. (We have a guest list of 225! OOP.)

-One wedding at a time, please.

-An option to have an indoor or outdoor wedding.

-I want it to feel very warm and cozy. I'd like it to be a space where I could imagine a bunch of old school men in tuxedos smoking cigars and playing cards. I'm thinking dark wood and leather.

Places I've already seen an ruled out are the Riviera, Venetian Yacht Club, Windows on the Lake, Chateau La Mer, the Swan Club, Jericho Terrace, Carlyle on the Green, Westbury Manor, the Chateau at Coindre Hall, and the Sterling. Any ideas would be ever so helpful!