HELP!!-sorry kind of long
Hi Ladies!
Need your advice......A girl who I grew up with moved cross country about 12 yrs ago. We are still in contact but I did not ask her to be a BM for 2 reasons 1-she lives too far and 2-she just had gastric bypass surgery and ordering a dress would of been difficult since she is losing so much weight.
Anyway she was in town this past weekend and I asked her to do a reading at my ceremony. She said ok and then told me that she was upset that she wasn't a BM. She then said she would LOVE to sing at my wedding. I smiled and said 'no, its ok' but she kept insisting!! I called my mom and sis today and warned them that they better not surprise me. lol
How do I tell her no in a nice way so that I can be sure she won't try to sing??
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TIA!!
Need your advice......A girl who I grew up with moved cross country about 12 yrs ago. We are still in contact but I did not ask her to be a BM for 2 reasons 1-she lives too far and 2-she just had gastric bypass surgery and ordering a dress would of been difficult since she is losing so much weight.
Anyway she was in town this past weekend and I asked her to do a reading at my ceremony. She said ok and then told me that she was upset that she wasn't a BM. She then said she would LOVE to sing at my wedding. I smiled and said 'no, its ok' but she kept insisting!! I called my mom and sis today and warned them that they better not surprise me. lol
How do I tell her no in a nice way so that I can be sure she won't try to sing??
TIA!!
