I have a cousin who is like a big brother to me, we have always been very close. I planned on asking him to read to be apart of the ceremony, after meeting w/ the Rabbi last night & finding out that there isn't a reader, I'm sad.. I want him to be on my side. My brother is a GM & my other cousin is an Usher.
I was thinking of having him as the Bride's Man. I like title. I have a Matron of Honor, a Maid of Honor, & 2 BMs. We have 2 more guys than girls (not counting the Bride's Man) so we planned on having the 2 ushers not walk down the asile.
Who does a Bride's Man walk down the asile with?
How can I get him down? What order would it be? It's Matron After Maid? Then would he walk alone? Before I walk w/ my parents? I'm so confused
Any & all suggestions are most appreciated & valued, TIA
ourday08
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Hmmm...That's so hard to say....Do you think that he can walk down by himself right before the MOHs (matron and maid)?
SoontobeMrsH
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Hmmm...That's so hard to say....Do you think that he can walk down by himself right before the MOH?
See I was thinking after the MOH & Maid, to kinda balance him walking alone.
Would it be weird to have him walk alone?
Can I have him walk w/ my brother & other cousin & have the other friend that was gonna be an usher walk w/ my brothers soon 2 Be Fiance?
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Posted by ourday08
Hmmm...That's so hard to say....Do you think that he can walk down by himself right before the MOH?
See I was thinking after the MOH & Maid, to kinda balance him walking alone.
Would it be weird to have him walk alone?
Can I have him walk w/ my brother & other cousin & have the other friend that was gonna be an usher walk w/ my brothers soon 2 Be Fiance?
i dont think it would be weird for him to walk down alone. i wish i could be of more help though i am clueless about the whole 'walking down the aisle order' and whatnot.
SoontobeMrsH
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I'm so confused about this!
Smiles111
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I had all of the guys just waiting at the altar with the groom.
I like it when the bridesmaids walk up the aisle alone and are then escorted back down by the groomsmen afterwards.
If you do it that way, it won't be as noticeable who he is or isn't walking with.
SoontobeMrsH
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Posted by Smiles111
I had all of the guys just waiting at the altar with the groom.
I like it when the bridesmaids walk up the aisle alone and are then escorted back down by the groomsmen afterwards.
If you do it that way, it won't be as noticeable who he is or isn't walking with.
Thanks so much!!
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I am having a man or honor / bestman in my wedding party. I am doing individual walk downs he will walk down the aisle just like a matron or maid of honor would right before the ring bearer and before me. I realize this may cause confusion and that is why I am making programs up listing him as my bestman and I am also telling family memebers.
SoontobeMrsH
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Thanks Jenn,
FH doesn't want to walk down the asile w/ his parent (this is a jewish tradition), & I think he's waiting at the end. Would it be weird if his 2 best Men are waiting with him, Then BM & GM, another set of BM & GM, then my Matron OH & my Maid of honor walk down with my Bride;s Man (who is married)? before I walk with my parents? We're not having a FG or a RB
