I am hoping that you can give me some advice with this one, since I have no idea how to handle it. My FH's brother is the Best Man, and he just completely shaved his head! He said that he was going to wait until after the wedding, but then he did it last week. When he told us what he did, he said not to worry, that he would grow it back for the wedding. Now he says he's not sure, since he thinks that he is getting a lot more attention from girls. I don't know what to do - I don't think that it looks good at all, and I am afraid that it is going to ruin my pics - especially since he is playing such a big role. I know I am being somewhat selfish, but do you think that it is too much for me to ask that he has hair? My wedding is in 5 1/2 weeks. He doesn't listen well to reason, and at times is very selfish. Any advice is greatly appreciated!
Diane
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I wouldnt worry about it. Hey my husband is bald...and LOVE IT!!!!
aug9bride
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jw7293
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Thanks Aug for the support! I will definitely let you know how it turns out - 5 more weeks to go! Unfortunately he is not a very approachable person, so I can't really talk to him about it.
While I know as the bride all you can think about is your wedding...most people don't obsess like the bride...If brides get their hair cut they think about how it would look at their wedding...etc...
my sisters wedding is less than one month away...and to be honest...I forget about it all the time...I'm sure she has NOT forgotten about it...
When he got back from our wedding...our neighbor said to my DH...'she let you get married with that thing on your chin' (he has a goatee) we laughed it off...but then I thought about it...this is the man I love...who cares what he looks like...
Let your FBIL have a shaved head...then you can point out to his children in the years to come...the silly things he did to get women's attention!! lol
hang in there...and remember why you are getting married...
cecil
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I hate to say it but I think it is kind of selfish to tell people what to do with there hair, as long as it was not hot pink or green, and he shows up dressed in his tux, I would not worry. Besides, there is nothing you can do now becuase it will just have to grow back, you cannot glue hair back on , unless it is a hairpiece. The focus will be on you and your husband. Try to relax and enjoy your day!
