so i have asked all my girls except 1 last one....
i've been trying to reach her over the phone, but its impossible ... she lives in CA and works in television ... we generally keep in touch over emails.
she's a friend from college, one of those friendships where even though you don't get to see eachother often you still just have that close feeling to someone ...
would you ...
a) keep trying to reach her, its worth it to talk to her over the phone
b) send her an email (maybe with one of the bridesmaids poems
c) send her a package ... maybe one of the bridesmaids poems and flowers or something saying i wish i could have spoken to her
d) other ... i'm open to any suggestions!
NY031978
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i think try calling a few more times..give it maybe the weekend or so if you cant talk w. her i think some flowers w/ a card or a lil package w/ a card would be really sweet!! if emails are the only way you guys normally talk maybe send her 1 saying pls call me ASAP i need to talk w you...
cindyandkevin
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I would send her an email, maybe an e-card from Hallmark. Just saying that you have something really important that you need to talk to her about and you want to discuss it in person. Ask her to set aside a time to call you or have her give you the best time to call her.
If that doesn't work, then send her a card in the mail with one of those cute poems. I asked one of my BMs that way, it all worked out!!!
snydl40
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Send her a package-one of my BMs lives in CA and this is what I did-I even packed it with her birthday gift.
DanNette
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Send a package! I think it would be cute, you can put little thoughtful things in it and a card asking her to be your BM. Packages in the mail are always the best surprise!
sunflower13
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I would try to speak with her over the phone but Ithink a package or flowers with a nice card or the will you be my bridesmaid? poem would be so sweet!!! HTH
tellitlikeitis
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I'd try the phone again and then if not go with the package idea!
Keywi231
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I like the package idea!
PegaLega
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I would keep trying to get her, and then maybe send her a package with a couple of things in it-I think that is a really cute idea
