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Help with BP introductions

Gambigoo Posted:

Help with BP introductions

So last year when I got engaged I asked my BFF from kindergarten to be my MOH and my best friend for the last 10 yrs and FSIL to be my bridesmaids. FH asked my brother and his 3 best friends to be groomsmen. We were uneven but I didn't care in the slightest.

Fast forward a few months later and my best friend gets diagnosed with cancer and passes away in just over a month. Besides being devastated, I absolutely refuse to replace her because she's no longer there. I know she will 'be there' and I'm fine with just my two girls and her in spirit. On a happier note, FH's very close friend who is in the military and now in Cali found out he will have release time and can make it to the wedding. So FH asked him to be a groomsmen.

Soooo, now we are 2 girls and 5 guys I'm totally ok with that. We are gonna have them walk down the aisle individually, my brother will escort my mom down, etc.

The problem I'm trying to now figure out is how to do the introductions. I know typically the MOH and Best man get introduced together, but then that leaves one Bridesmaid and 4 Groomsmens. If I pair my FSIL with 2 groomsmen that leaves 2 more. Is it weird if the 2 guys get introduced together??

Then I was thinking of just introducing our parents, then the whole bridal party as one big group (I'm sure they'd think of some silly dance or something), the MOH and Best man, then us.
I'm just trying to figure out away so no one feels uncomfortable or anything. I dunno if they'd even feel that way, it just may be my paranoia.
Any suggestions, ladies?
Thanks!!!
JaimeLin Posted:

Help with BP introductions - Long Island Weddings

what about having 2 guys one girl, 2 guys one girl, and then have the other guy walk out with the flower girl/ring bearer?

ypharmacy Posted:

Help with BP introductions

I was thinking same thing..2guys one girl x2

ypharmacy Posted:

Help with BP introductions

Sorry to hear about your friend.she will be with you in spirit definetly.

ASemderWedding Posted:

Help with BP introductions - Long Island Weddings

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.

As for your question, I think having the whole BP come out together wouldn't be a bad thing. I think you could do the 2 guys with 1 girl that was suggested above. I think either way it will work out!
Vilardi82 Posted:

Help with BP introductions - Long Island Weddings

So sorry to hear about youth friend that's awful.

I thing you should introduce the whole bridal party together like you said they will make it fun and it will look fine I think.
mattandjess2013 Posted:

Help with BP introductions - Long Island Weddings

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.

We had 3 girls and 5 guys in our wedding party. We had 1 girl walk down with 2 guys, then the MOH and BM together.
christinechristian Posted:

Help with BP introductions - Long Island Weddings

Aww I am so sorry about your friend. She will be there with you in spirit. I agree with the other girls with the 2 guys 1 girl thing and then maybe have the best man walk out with the flower girl/ring bearer... You can pair the best man/moh and just add another groomsman... then bridesmaid and 2 groomsman.. then a groomsman with the little ones? I think no matter which way you do it will be fine! ;) Good luck

coffeeisgreen Posted:

Help with BP introductions - Long Island Weddings

I am so sorry about your friend. That is heartbreaking and my thoughts and prayers go out to you. I, too, like the idea of two guys and one girl x 2 and the other guy coming out with the FG & RB.

Gambigoo Posted:

Re: Help with BP introductions

Thank you all for your ideas

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