helping each other

I never thought I would respond to all the bickering. I got home from work tonight at 1:30. I had 84 new messages on this board. More than half have nothing to do with weddings. This is so out of control. Can't we stick to weddings and forget all this. I have gotten many great ideas from this site for my daughters wedding. Now I even hesitate to take a look. I don't have an answer how to stop this but someone has to be the bigger person and drop this fighting. Carolyn

As for not revealing my name, I don't have to. In fact half the posts on this board are by screen names, and some who chose to posts under several names. Who cares. Is it the name that matters or the opinions we chose to share. What difference does it make if I reveal my name. We all do not know one another and I think Kate likes to make excuses and take the criticism off herself.