Here is my problem...need advice

Here is my problem...need advice

Ok so I have chosen 4 BM's, 2 of which are my friends, 1 sister and one of my FH's friends. The only reason I picked her was because him and her are such good friends and I needed another girl. I have met her and talked to her a few times, she seemed really happy to be part of our wedding. But she has never called me to see if I need anything I have sent her several e-mails to which she says she has never received. I had sent out an update to all the girls and I never heard from her. So I had my FH send it to her then I knew she would get it. She says she e-mailed me back several times but I have never got them. What should I do? I mean I only put her in there for him

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i would call her as well. i would also tell her that you wanted her to be apart of your day but dont want her to do something she doesnt want to do. i had my brothers live in girlfriend in my wedding party because of him and made sure that she was totally comfortable first. i also did it bacause of my brother and i needed an extra girl to be my brothers partner because he was my man of honor and i didnt want to have to dance with the best man lol

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I thought about calling her but what do I say. She calls my FH at least once a week and never me. You would think she would at least ask to speak to me

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I agree with Marisa-- definitely call her- then there is no excuse!

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Maybe you should give her a call and ask her out to lunch. Maybe if you got a bit closer with her she would feel more comfortable calling you instead of your FH.

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Thanks for the advice, she lives in NY and I am in California right now. I think I will give her a call though