Here's a silly question...

ds319 Posted: Sep 18, 2006 03:05 PM

Here's a silly question...

I am responsible for the invitations for a bridal shower that we are planning for my friend. Do I send an invitation to the bridesmaids? They already know they are attending. I obviously can't send one to her mom or sister because she lives with them and she might find the invitation. But what do I do about the bridesmaid? TIA!!!

bettybcafe Posted: Sep 18, 2006 03:07 PM

Re: Here's a silly question...

Yea I would do it...it would be nice to receive one even if you are in the bridal party.

jenafee Posted: Sep 18, 2006 03:09 PM

Re: Here's a silly question...

Posted by ds319

I am responsible for the invitations for a bridal shower that we are planning for my friend. Do I send an invitation to the bridesmaids? They already know they are attending. I obviously can't send one to her mom or sister because she lives with them and she might find the invitation. But what do I do about the bridesmaid? TIA!!!

I would suggest maybe calling the bridesmaid on the phone letting her know that you have the invite, but can't send it to her because of the situation. Tell her you have it for her and next time you see her (hoping its before the shower), you'll give it to her then. Good luck!

neener1211 Posted: Sep 18, 2006 03:59 PM

Re: Here's a silly question...

yes send them to the bridesmaids...i was responsible for sending them out to everyone and i sent them to the bridesmaids as well...

we also found that the sister (moh) of the bride didn't put the registry info on the direction cards that she insisted on making....so the only way that we found that out, was by the other girls looking at it...

i had been so busy doing the invitations, I never realized her mistake.