let the drama begin :( one BM already down, saying it's to much money being in it... thank god she told me 3 months to the wedding!!! mind u i announced my wedding 11 months ago like really ?!!! cudn't u save up? but w.e i'm not stressing myself out over this!!! but i feel bad finding someone else don't want them to feel like they a replacement :( when technically that's what they are whah!!!! help me ladies
I had one BM drop out b/c she is pregnant which isnt the problem. The problem is she will be 7 1/2 months and last pregnancy (only a year ago) she had the baby early b/c of medical conditions and she lives in Maryland so if she is on bedrest she can't even come.I had people that i was on the fence having in the wedding but didn't. So to ask them after the fact i thought would be rude. Its your call. Some people def. want the even amout of bm and gm!
yea :( i mean i was honestly going to have one GM walk down with two BM's but i dunno yet :( fustrating n to top it off it's family !!! like they the ones that will screw u over before friends!!!! ughhhh anoyyingg
i know girl i went thru it myself!!! for my BF's wedding she kept it only for family members to be in her wedding party( don't ask why?!!) cuz me, i chose my wedding parry according to how i felt for them, n who's been in my life more like when i needed them n u'll be surprise to know that im closer to some of my friends than what i am with my own family.... but anywayz her n her hubbie decided to do it that way.... just like 2 months before her big day she calls me crying!!! that she wants me to be in it because she got into it with her cuzin!! like i did it for her cuz i love her no matter what we go thru but it's like ***?!! i felt like a extra its not a cool feeling at all so i wont want nobody else to feel that way at all ughhhhh but then gain it's not fair for me to tell my FH to take a guy out b/c of one of my girls!!! sucks
Posted by sweet
yea :( i mean i was honestly going to have one GM walk down with two BM's but i dunno yet :( fustrating n to top it off it's family !!! like they the ones that will screw u over before friends!!!! ughhhh anoyyingg
your so right !!! i was thinkin the same thing i was so mad yesterday telling my MOH n i told her the same thing i'm to the point that i dont care i told her even if i just have one standing that day !! like you know who made the effort n really did it for me
Posted by sweet
your so right !!! i was thinkin the same thing i was so mad yesterday telling my MOH n i told her the same thing i'm to the point that i dont care i told her even if i just have one standing that day !! like you know who made the effort n really did it for me
yup!!!! amen to that girl
Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali
I personally would just stick with the original BP you have... unless there is someone that has been really helpful.
I had a BM drop o).ut (and we are no longer friends) and my BP is uneven but it's okay because I have the ones that I want standing with me!
ETA: and you shouldn't have to have FH take a guy out, unless you are stuck on having it even.
